Captain Harlock
Senior Don Juan
I said beta mindset, not 'better'. I don't talk like 50 cent on the internet.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Is this an Alpha pose? (Pic attached)
- Thread starter spinaroonie
- Start date
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
This is a much more alpha pose:
http://www.telegraph.co.uk/telegraph/multimedia/archive/01427/20090621-bruno_1427912a.jpg
http://www.telegraph.co.uk/telegraph/multimedia/archive/01427/20090621-bruno_1427912a.jpg
BULLSH1T
Women get off on power, & ANYTHING THAT PROJECTS POWER WILL TURN THEM INTO A HORNY SLVT no matter if they like it or not, from house wifes to nun's!!!!
BULKING UP will project power, you must be some skinny guy that's looking for excuses, i'll be helpfull and give a fellow DJ andvice:
-look up DIESEL'S guide on "BULKIN UP"
-Pook's "What every skinny guy should know",
-kick yourself in the nuts (if you have any?)
Agreed.Bloke said:
Seriously, quit overanalyzing minutiae. Do you really think that a girl in a bar or wherever is going to reject you because she got out her friend's smartphone, tracked down your Facebook profile, and decided your picture isn't alpha enough?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Dude that is not a good pose.
What the hell.
You got nostrils.
Nostrils I tell ya.
Damn quit flaring.
Lose the planet of the apes look.
And thrown that suit away.
I think you are the type of guy who would prosper in the anti-society, punk realm.
**** the corporacry.
What the hell.
You got nostrils.
Nostrils I tell ya.
Damn quit flaring.
Lose the planet of the apes look.
And thrown that suit away.
I think you are the type of guy who would prosper in the anti-society, punk realm.
**** the corporacry.
fertileTurtle
Master Don Juan
Go fvck yourself you 90lb sandmonkey.trv26 said:
fertileTurtle
Master Don Juan
That's right cvnt, because I live in America. Plenty of good Indians over here who shave their pits and take baths.MrLuvr said:
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Skydiver43127
Senior Don Juan
Use hotornot.com to measure its popularity against other pictures you might have of yourself. It's the most objective way.
Personally, I've had good pictures of me rated low only because there was a woman on the picture next to me. Using such a picture can be perceived as a sign of insecurity - you rely on women to give value to your picture.
Personally, I've had good pictures of me rated low only because there was a woman on the picture next to me. Using such a picture can be perceived as a sign of insecurity - you rely on women to give value to your picture.
pjtheman
Don Juan
What and they don't in India? You American ****tard.fertileTurtle said:
fertileTurtle
Master Don Juan
This coming from a poor poor metrosexual who can't even own a gun. Americans are really scared of you pwned weirdos lol. All your bands are queer too. But you probably like that pissie. Have fun dealing with those raghead psychos you can't do anything about. LOL :crackup:pjtheman said:
john siegal
Don Juan
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Dude...you look like some billionare software mongul....I like it...!!!
Bro....don't listen to these Morons....That pic is good....Looks natural, and un-canned....i like it.
Now...get about 10 more shots like this for your facebook page. Try some action shots too...playing sports, tuxedo, casual dress the whole 9 yards....and start mackin with all types of chicks. The hotter the better...but really, for photos...try to get 7's and up.
Otherwise...this is a very good start...
Bro....don't listen to these Morons....That pic is good....Looks natural, and un-canned....i like it.
Now...get about 10 more shots like this for your facebook page. Try some action shots too...playing sports, tuxedo, casual dress the whole 9 yards....and start mackin with all types of chicks. The hotter the better...but really, for photos...try to get 7's and up.
Otherwise...this is a very good start...
there's too much hatred and frustration between you guys. remember what we're all here for? self-improvement and looking for positive feedback not to create enemies. stop fighting and if you got nothing good to say just close the tab. we should be operating as the sosuave team not like a bunch of *******s
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
fertileTurtle
Master Don Juan
I'm just pissed this guy wants some honest feedback and all we get is hating, so I just dish it back. Yeah say what's wrong, but stop acting like you're in fvcking high school. Anyone who knows anything about this DJ thing, knows that you don't always have 10s. If you think that, you're a scam. It's not even about that anyway. And only a homo concentrates on looks alone as far as telling your bros how to get them hos. Get real pissies.
Ace of Dubs
New Member
1. Yes that is alpha pose - you are taking up all the space and look relaxed and confident.
2. Most of the guys who replied in this thread are very sad, frustrated people - pay no mind to them
2. Most of the guys who replied in this thread are very sad, frustrated people - pay no mind to them