"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Is this an Alpha pose? (Pic attached)

Captain Harlock

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I said beta mindset, not 'better'. I don't talk like 50 cent on the internet.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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muscles don't make you an alpha..that's a childish definition..muscles don't define who you are and can definitely cover up any deficiencies..and it works on people like you
needle in ass=alpha ???
BULLSH1T

Women get off on power, & ANYTHING THAT PROJECTS POWER WILL TURN THEM INTO A HORNY SLVT no matter if they like it or not, from house wifes to nun's!!!!

BULKING UP will project power, you must be some skinny guy that's looking for excuses, i'll be helpfull and give a fellow DJ andvice:
-look up DIESEL'S guide on "BULKIN UP"
-Pook's "What every skinny guy should know",
-kick yourself in the nuts (if you have any?)
 

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If you have to ask if something is alpha it isn't...u took a quick picture...

complete over analysis thread

/closed
 

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Bloke said:
This thread epitomises what's wrong with this board.
Agreed.

Seriously, quit overanalyzing minutiae. Do you really think that a girl in a bar or wherever is going to reject you because she got out her friend's smartphone, tracked down your Facebook profile, and decided your picture isn't alpha enough?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Dude that is not a good pose.
What the hell.
You got nostrils.
Nostrils I tell ya.
Damn quit flaring.

Lose the planet of the apes look.

And thrown that suit away.

I think you are the type of guy who would prosper in the anti-society, punk realm.

**** the corporacry.
 

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trv26 said:
Neg-repped (8 times over) for that!!!! How would you guys those women, on the scale of 1 to 10? I'm not hating, just stating facts. My point was he'd likely get more credit from other women if the women on his arm were better looking. Apologies to OP if he took offense.

And the person accusing me of being racist......you do realise im of indian-origin right!!
Go fvck yourself you 90lb sandmonkey.
 

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MrLuvr said:
Except that you don't know what "typical" Indian chicks looks like.
That's right cvnt, because I live in America. Plenty of good Indians over here who shave their pits and take baths.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Use hotornot.com to measure its popularity against other pictures you might have of yourself. It's the most objective way.

Personally, I've had good pictures of me rated low only because there was a woman on the picture next to me. Using such a picture can be perceived as a sign of insecurity - you rely on women to give value to your picture.
 

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fertileTurtle said:
That's right cvnt, because I live in America. Plenty of good Indians over here who shave their pits and take baths.
What and they don't in India? You American ****tard.
 

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pjtheman said:
What and they don't in India? You American ****tard.
This coming from a poor poor metrosexual who can't even own a gun. Americans are really scared of you pwned weirdos lol. All your bands are queer too. But you probably like that pissie. Have fun dealing with those raghead psychos you can't do anything about. LOL :crackup:
 

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Dude...you look like some billionare software mongul....I like it...!!!

Bro....don't listen to these Morons....That pic is good....Looks natural, and un-canned....i like it.

Now...get about 10 more shots like this for your facebook page. Try some action shots too...playing sports, tuxedo, casual dress the whole 9 yards....and start mackin with all types of chicks. The hotter the better...but really, for photos...try to get 7's and up.

Otherwise...this is a very good start...:up:
 

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there's too much hatred and frustration between you guys. remember what we're all here for? self-improvement and looking for positive feedback not to create enemies. stop fighting and if you got nothing good to say just close the tab. we should be operating as the sosuave team not like a bunch of *******s ;)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I'm just pissed this guy wants some honest feedback and all we get is hating, so I just dish it back. Yeah say what's wrong, but stop acting like you're in fvcking high school. Anyone who knows anything about this DJ thing, knows that you don't always have 10s. If you think that, you're a scam. It's not even about that anyway. And only a homo concentrates on looks alone as far as telling your bros how to get them hos. Get real pissies.
 

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1. Yes that is alpha pose - you are taking up all the space and look relaxed and confident.

2. Most of the guys who replied in this thread are very sad, frustrated people - pay no mind to them
 

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