Captain Harlock
Senior Don Juan
I said beta mindset, not 'better'. I don't talk like 50 cent on the internet.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
BULLSH1Tmuscles don't make you an alpha..that's a childish definition..muscles don't define who you are and can definitely cover up any deficiencies..and it works on people like you
needle in ass=alpha ???
Agreed.Bloke said:This thread epitomises what's wrong with this board.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Go fvck yourself you 90lb sandmonkey.trv26 said:Neg-repped (8 times over) for that!!!! How would you guys those women, on the scale of 1 to 10? I'm not hating, just stating facts. My point was he'd likely get more credit from other women if the women on his arm were better looking. Apologies to OP if he took offense.
And the person accusing me of being racist......you do realise im of indian-origin right!!
That's right cvnt, because I live in America. Plenty of good Indians over here who shave their pits and take baths.MrLuvr said:Except that you don't know what "typical" Indian chicks looks like.
Ur a bit of a hypocrite aren't you.fertileTurtle said:Go fvck yourself you 90lb sandmonkey.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
What and they don't in India? You American ****tard.fertileTurtle said:That's right cvnt, because I live in America. Plenty of good Indians over here who shave their pits and take baths.
This coming from a poor poor metrosexual who can't even own a gun. Americans are really scared of you pwned weirdos lol. All your bands are queer too. But you probably like that pissie. Have fun dealing with those raghead psychos you can't do anything about. LOL :crackup:pjtheman said:What and they don't in India? You American ****tard.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
*facepalm*spinaroonie said:Hey guys, looking for your input
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It's my facebook display pic... from a wedding banquet. Feel free to tear it apart.