Captain Harlock
Senior Don Juan
I said beta mindset, not 'better'. I don't talk like 50 cent on the internet.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
BULLSH1Tmuscles don't make you an alpha..that's a childish definition..muscles don't define who you are and can definitely cover up any deficiencies..and it works on people like you
needle in ass=alpha ???
Agreed.Bloke said:This thread epitomises what's wrong with this board.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Go fvck yourself you 90lb sandmonkey.trv26 said:Neg-repped (8 times over) for that!!!! How would you guys those women, on the scale of 1 to 10? I'm not hating, just stating facts. My point was he'd likely get more credit from other women if the women on his arm were better looking. Apologies to OP if he took offense.
And the person accusing me of being racist......you do realise im of indian-origin right!!
That's right cvnt, because I live in America. Plenty of good Indians over here who shave their pits and take baths.MrLuvr said:Except that you don't know what "typical" Indian chicks looks like.
Ur a bit of a hypocrite aren't you.fertileTurtle said:Go fvck yourself you 90lb sandmonkey.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
What and they don't in India? You American ****tard.fertileTurtle said:That's right cvnt, because I live in America. Plenty of good Indians over here who shave their pits and take baths.
This coming from a poor poor metrosexual who can't even own a gun. Americans are really scared of you pwned weirdos lol. All your bands are queer too. But you probably like that pissie. Have fun dealing with those raghead psychos you can't do anything about. LOL :crackup:pjtheman said:What and they don't in India? You American ****tard.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
*facepalm*spinaroonie said:Hey guys, looking for your input
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It's my facebook display pic... from a wedding banquet. Feel free to tear it apart.