"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Is this an AFC song?

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Why do you even care about "AFCism" in music? I listen to music that I like, not because of the message it tries to convey. Pretty much EVERY song form The Beatles is "afc" yet it still sounds good.

Damian Marley is definitely fvcking Alpha though he's badass
 

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By definition of this board, nearly every song in existence aside from rap is AFC.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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The ironic thing is that a lot of the guys who make AFC music are big time players. At the end of the day you have to remember that these folks are in business to make money. AFC themed music sells.
 

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Lexington said:
The ironic thing is that a lot of the guys who make AFC music are big time players. At the end of the day you have to remember that these folks are in business to make money. AFC themed music sells.
Agreed
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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If it's one thing this forum taught me, what girls say they want and what they really want are very different.
 

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SeymourCake said:
Why are these AFC songs so appealing to women though? Shouldn't they hate this kind of music then?

So would these be alpha-made songs?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U4N2sSnH1Us
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=--TCriRfCS8

Those afc songs are the same as romance novels. Not real. Women love Big as much as they love Tre Song.

When the Remy's in the system, ain't no tellin, will I **** or will I diss em, that's what these hoes yellin! I'm a pimp by blood, not relation, yall still chase 'em, I replace em!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QDRo58R6PpU

Dr Dre Xplosive - been knowing the ho for 3 days, pimpin repays, and I bet you didn't know that she go both ways.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QagknwNl6Q4

Dr Dre **** You -I just wanna fvck bad bytches, for all those nights I never had bytches! Mad at ya boyfriend ain't ya!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U6K7dB3T6ho

And the classic on player game. Too Short I'm a Player : I was fvckin ugly hoes back in high school. Used to be broke and didn't have no clothes, now I fvck top notch hoes.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XQuB_WEGQSM
 

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Gears of Led Zep said:
Warrior you're a ****en G. Too Short one of my favorite artists thats guy's flows are awesome.
Yo, G's Up and Hoes Down!!! Ya Feel me?

Most of you don't know this, but on the Net I am an OG serving 10 to life in State. Ya dig me!! No homo!! I am also the envy of every white/Asian/Mexican suburban boy in America. My street cred flows like hot butta.
 

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Warrior74 said:
Those afc songs are the same as romance novels. Not real. Women love Big as much as they love Tre Song.
Exactly. People here need to remember women love corny romantic stuff like that. What they don't want is it coming from a wimp, which is unfortunately who they get most of that sh1t from. If you're a true DJ with all his inner game worked out and you do all this corny sh1t for a woman, you'd fulfill her dreams.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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