"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Is this an AFC song?

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Why do you even care about "AFCism" in music? I listen to music that I like, not because of the message it tries to convey. Pretty much EVERY song form The Beatles is "afc" yet it still sounds good.

Damian Marley is definitely fvcking Alpha though he's badass
 

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By definition of this board, nearly every song in existence aside from rap is AFC.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The ironic thing is that a lot of the guys who make AFC music are big time players. At the end of the day you have to remember that these folks are in business to make money. AFC themed music sells.
 

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Lexington said:
The ironic thing is that a lot of the guys who make AFC music are big time players. At the end of the day you have to remember that these folks are in business to make money. AFC themed music sells.
Agreed
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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If it's one thing this forum taught me, what girls say they want and what they really want are very different.
 

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SeymourCake said:
Why are these AFC songs so appealing to women though? Shouldn't they hate this kind of music then?

So would these be alpha-made songs?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U4N2sSnH1Us
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=--TCriRfCS8

Those afc songs are the same as romance novels. Not real. Women love Big as much as they love Tre Song.

When the Remy's in the system, ain't no tellin, will I **** or will I diss em, that's what these hoes yellin! I'm a pimp by blood, not relation, yall still chase 'em, I replace em!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QDRo58R6PpU

Dr Dre Xplosive - been knowing the ho for 3 days, pimpin repays, and I bet you didn't know that she go both ways.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QagknwNl6Q4

Dr Dre **** You -I just wanna fvck bad bytches, for all those nights I never had bytches! Mad at ya boyfriend ain't ya!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U6K7dB3T6ho

And the classic on player game. Too Short I'm a Player : I was fvckin ugly hoes back in high school. Used to be broke and didn't have no clothes, now I fvck top notch hoes.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XQuB_WEGQSM
 

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Gears of Led Zep said:
Warrior you're a ****en G. Too Short one of my favorite artists thats guy's flows are awesome.
Yo, G's Up and Hoes Down!!! Ya Feel me?

Most of you don't know this, but on the Net I am an OG serving 10 to life in State. Ya dig me!! No homo!! I am also the envy of every white/Asian/Mexican suburban boy in America. My street cred flows like hot butta.
 

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Warrior74 said:
Those afc songs are the same as romance novels. Not real. Women love Big as much as they love Tre Song.
Exactly. People here need to remember women love corny romantic stuff like that. What they don't want is it coming from a wimp, which is unfortunately who they get most of that sh1t from. If you're a true DJ with all his inner game worked out and you do all this corny sh1t for a woman, you'd fulfill her dreams.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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