SeymourCake
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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
You forgot real countryWar Against Betaism said:By definition of this board, nearly every song in existence aside from rap is AFC.
AgreedLexington said:The ironic thing is that a lot of the guys who make AFC music are big time players. At the end of the day you have to remember that these folks are in business to make money. AFC themed music sells.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
SeymourCake said:Why are these AFC songs so appealing to women though? Shouldn't they hate this kind of music then?
So would these be alpha-made songs?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U4N2sSnH1Us
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=--TCriRfCS8
Yo, G's Up and Hoes Down!!! Ya Feel me?Gears of Led Zep said:Warrior you're a ****en G. Too Short one of my favorite artists thats guy's flows are awesome.
Exactly. People here need to remember women love corny romantic stuff like that. What they don't want is it coming from a wimp, which is unfortunately who they get most of that sh1t from. If you're a true DJ with all his inner game worked out and you do all this corny sh1t for a woman, you'd fulfill her dreams.Warrior74 said:Those afc songs are the same as romance novels. Not real. Women love Big as much as they love Tre Song.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.