SeymourCake
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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
You forgot real countryWar Against Betaism said:By definition of this board, nearly every song in existence aside from rap is AFC.
AgreedLexington said:The ironic thing is that a lot of the guys who make AFC music are big time players. At the end of the day you have to remember that these folks are in business to make money. AFC themed music sells.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
SeymourCake said:Why are these AFC songs so appealing to women though? Shouldn't they hate this kind of music then?
So would these be alpha-made songs?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U4N2sSnH1Us
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=--TCriRfCS8
Yo, G's Up and Hoes Down!!! Ya Feel me?Gears of Led Zep said:Warrior you're a ****en G. Too Short one of my favorite artists thats guy's flows are awesome.
Exactly. People here need to remember women love corny romantic stuff like that. What they don't want is it coming from a wimp, which is unfortunately who they get most of that sh1t from. If you're a true DJ with all his inner game worked out and you do all this corny sh1t for a woman, you'd fulfill her dreams.Warrior74 said:Those afc songs are the same as romance novels. Not real. Women love Big as much as they love Tre Song.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.