GF is staying at home today and not going to work . I lost my job a few years ago and have been doing odd jobs. I currently don't have a job and today is Monday. I know I should look for a job but my GF isn't working today , however I did spend all weekend with her but I want to spend more time with her so I'm not going to look for a job today . Is this an AFC move?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Is this an AFC move?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Skyline
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I would look for a job... Basic living(yourself) comes before everything else, If I can't put bread on the table or a roof over my head then I'm not really doing what's best for myself.mikey2012 said:
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This thread is afc.
Tictac
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If she's gong to cheat, it's a matter of time.
Crawling up her a*s changes nothing.
Living in fear is most definitely AFC
Crawling up her a*s changes nothing.
Living in fear is most definitely AFC
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Dude, she'll be more likely to have an affair or cheat if you're clinging to her like a scared child.mikey2012 said:
She's already probably wondering why you are spending time with her in lieu of getting a job and if she isn't then she's not worth your time.
I give up. either you're a great troll or you need to grow a sack. Why would you keep around after she had an affair? I don't care how hot a woman is if she cheats it's adios. Nobody deserves that crap unless they of course are forgiving someone who cheats then guess what that's on you.mikey2012 said:
Get a job, kick this girl to the curb, and find some dignity.
There seems to be quite a few threads like this lately, though many of them are coming from the red reputation posters.
I'm surprised someone with 400 posts and a bunch of time here hasn't understood basic concepts like:
-Don't remain with girls who cheat
-Get a life and hobbies outside of your girl
-Stop worrying so damn much
I'm surprised someone with 400 posts and a bunch of time here hasn't understood basic concepts like:
-Don't remain with girls who cheat
-Get a life and hobbies outside of your girl
-Stop worrying so damn much
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
If you have to ask if something is "afc" then yes its afc.
If you don't get a job.. She WILL lose attraction. Unless she's an old cougar sugar mama looking for young dyck.
Either way.. It won't last unless your the man with a plan.
As George Thourghgood says "get a hair cut and get a REAL job.
Epi
Edit: kids WILL NOT make you closer. The only closer you will be getting will be closer to afc and her losing even more time/attraction for you. You have to have a good solid foundation before you bring kids into this world. Your "closer" will be all of 5 seconds as you blow your load.. After that you will be on the back burner and handing over your paycheck.
If you don't get a job.. She WILL lose attraction. Unless she's an old cougar sugar mama looking for young dyck.
Either way.. It won't last unless your the man with a plan.
As George Thourghgood says "get a hair cut and get a REAL job.
Epi
Edit: kids WILL NOT make you closer. The only closer you will be getting will be closer to afc and her losing even more time/attraction for you. You have to have a good solid foundation before you bring kids into this world. Your "closer" will be all of 5 seconds as you blow your load.. After that you will be on the back burner and handing over your paycheck.
No.Danny
Master Don Juan
Sure......... We'll believe that!mikey2012 said:
#Nothingwasthesame after this day.
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