“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Is this an AFC move?

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GF is staying at home today and not going to work . I lost my job a few years ago and have been doing odd jobs. I currently don't have a job and today is Monday. I know I should look for a job but my GF isn't working today , however I did spend all weekend with her but I want to spend more time with her so I'm not going to look for a job today . Is this an AFC move?
 

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mikey2012 said:
GF is staying at home today and not going to work . I lost my job a few years ago and have been doing odd jobs. I currently don't have a job and today is Monday. I know I should look for a job but my GF isn't working today , however I did spend all weekend with her but I want to spend more time with her so I'm not going to look for a job today . Is this an AFC move?
I would look for a job... Basic living(yourself) comes before everything else, If I can't put bread on the table or a roof over my head then I'm not really doing what's best for myself.
 

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Frayzer said:
I would look for a job... Basic living(yourself) comes before everything else, If I can't put bread on the table or a roof over my head then I'm not really doing what's best for myself.
But I'm scared she might leave me or have an affair if I'm not around her
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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mikey2012 said:
But I'm scared she might leave me or have an affair if I'm not around her
Dude, she'll be more likely to have an affair or cheat if you're clinging to her like a scared child.

She's already probably wondering why you are spending time with her in lieu of getting a job and if she isn't then she's not worth your time.
 

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The_411 said:
Dude, she'll be more likely to have an affair or cheat if you're clinging to her like a scared child.

She's already probably wondering why you are spending time with her in lieu of getting a job and if she isn't then she's not worth your time.
Thanks for your input . But she had an affair before and I forgave her . But despite not having a job she still with me. What are your thoughts about having a kid to make us feel closer ?
 

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mikey2012 said:
Thanks for your input . But she had an affair before and I forgave her . But despite not having a job she still with me. What are your thoughts about having a kid to make us feel closer ?
I give up. either you're a great troll or you need to grow a sack. Why would you keep around after she had an affair? I don't care how hot a woman is if she cheats it's adios. Nobody deserves that crap unless they of course are forgiving someone who cheats then guess what that's on you.

Get a job, kick this girl to the curb, and find some dignity.
 

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The_411 said:
I give up. either you're a great troll or you need to grow a sack. Why would you keep around after she had an affair? I don't care how hot a woman is if she cheats it's adios. Nobody deserves that crap unless they of course are forgiving someone who cheats then guess what that's on you.

Get a job, kick this girl to the curb, and find some dignity.
Thanks . Good advice
 

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There seems to be quite a few threads like this lately, though many of them are coming from the red reputation posters.

I'm surprised someone with 400 posts and a bunch of time here hasn't understood basic concepts like:

-Don't remain with girls who cheat

-Get a life and hobbies outside of your girl

-Stop worrying so damn much
 

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If you have to ask if something is "afc" then yes its afc.

If you don't get a job.. She WILL lose attraction. Unless she's an old cougar sugar mama looking for young dyck.

Either way.. It won't last unless your the man with a plan.

As George Thourghgood says "get a hair cut and get a REAL job.

Epi

Edit: kids WILL NOT make you closer. The only closer you will be getting will be closer to afc and her losing even more time/attraction for you. You have to have a good solid foundation before you bring kids into this world. Your "closer" will be all of 5 seconds as you blow your load.. After that you will be on the back burner and handing over your paycheck.
 

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Dreesy said:
There seems to be quite a few threads like this lately, though many of them are coming from the red reputation posters.

I'm surprised someone with 400 posts and a bunch of time here hasn't understood basic concepts like:

-Don't remain with girls who cheat

-Get a life and hobbies outside of your girl

-Stop worrying so damn much

Damn. My younger brother used my account. Ignore him.
 

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mikey2012 said:
Damn. My younger brother used my account. Ignore him.
Sure......... We'll believe that!
#Nothingwasthesame after this day.
 
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