GF is staying at home today and not going to work . I lost my job a few years ago and have been doing odd jobs. I currently don't have a job and today is Monday. I know I should look for a job but my GF isn't working today , however I did spend all weekend with her but I want to spend more time with her so I'm not going to look for a job today . Is this an AFC move?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Is this an AFC move?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Skyline
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I would look for a job... Basic living(yourself) comes before everything else, If I can't put bread on the table or a roof over my head then I'm not really doing what's best for myself.mikey2012 said:
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This thread is afc.
Tictac
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If she's gong to cheat, it's a matter of time.
Crawling up her a*s changes nothing.
Living in fear is most definitely AFC
Crawling up her a*s changes nothing.
Living in fear is most definitely AFC
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Dude, she'll be more likely to have an affair or cheat if you're clinging to her like a scared child.mikey2012 said:
She's already probably wondering why you are spending time with her in lieu of getting a job and if she isn't then she's not worth your time.
I give up. either you're a great troll or you need to grow a sack. Why would you keep around after she had an affair? I don't care how hot a woman is if she cheats it's adios. Nobody deserves that crap unless they of course are forgiving someone who cheats then guess what that's on you.mikey2012 said:
Get a job, kick this girl to the curb, and find some dignity.
There seems to be quite a few threads like this lately, though many of them are coming from the red reputation posters.
I'm surprised someone with 400 posts and a bunch of time here hasn't understood basic concepts like:
-Don't remain with girls who cheat
-Get a life and hobbies outside of your girl
-Stop worrying so damn much
I'm surprised someone with 400 posts and a bunch of time here hasn't understood basic concepts like:
-Don't remain with girls who cheat
-Get a life and hobbies outside of your girl
-Stop worrying so damn much
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
If you have to ask if something is "afc" then yes its afc.
If you don't get a job.. She WILL lose attraction. Unless she's an old cougar sugar mama looking for young dyck.
Either way.. It won't last unless your the man with a plan.
As George Thourghgood says "get a hair cut and get a REAL job.
Epi
Edit: kids WILL NOT make you closer. The only closer you will be getting will be closer to afc and her losing even more time/attraction for you. You have to have a good solid foundation before you bring kids into this world. Your "closer" will be all of 5 seconds as you blow your load.. After that you will be on the back burner and handing over your paycheck.
If you don't get a job.. She WILL lose attraction. Unless she's an old cougar sugar mama looking for young dyck.
Either way.. It won't last unless your the man with a plan.
As George Thourghgood says "get a hair cut and get a REAL job.
Epi
Edit: kids WILL NOT make you closer. The only closer you will be getting will be closer to afc and her losing even more time/attraction for you. You have to have a good solid foundation before you bring kids into this world. Your "closer" will be all of 5 seconds as you blow your load.. After that you will be on the back burner and handing over your paycheck.
No.Danny
Master Don Juan
Sure......... We'll believe that!mikey2012 said:
#Nothingwasthesame after this day.
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