GF is staying at home today and not going to work . I lost my job a few years ago and have been doing odd jobs. I currently don't have a job and today is Monday. I know I should look for a job but my GF isn't working today , however I did spend all weekend with her but I want to spend more time with her so I'm not going to look for a job today . Is this an AFC move?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Is this an AFC move?
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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I would look for a job... Basic living(yourself) comes before everything else, If I can't put bread on the table or a roof over my head then I'm not really doing what's best for myself.mikey2012 said:
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This thread is afc.
Tictac
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If she's gong to cheat, it's a matter of time.
Crawling up her a*s changes nothing.
Living in fear is most definitely AFC
Crawling up her a*s changes nothing.
Living in fear is most definitely AFC
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Dude, she'll be more likely to have an affair or cheat if you're clinging to her like a scared child.mikey2012 said:
She's already probably wondering why you are spending time with her in lieu of getting a job and if she isn't then she's not worth your time.
I give up. either you're a great troll or you need to grow a sack. Why would you keep around after she had an affair? I don't care how hot a woman is if she cheats it's adios. Nobody deserves that crap unless they of course are forgiving someone who cheats then guess what that's on you.mikey2012 said:
Get a job, kick this girl to the curb, and find some dignity.
There seems to be quite a few threads like this lately, though many of them are coming from the red reputation posters.
I'm surprised someone with 400 posts and a bunch of time here hasn't understood basic concepts like:
-Don't remain with girls who cheat
-Get a life and hobbies outside of your girl
-Stop worrying so damn much
I'm surprised someone with 400 posts and a bunch of time here hasn't understood basic concepts like:
-Don't remain with girls who cheat
-Get a life and hobbies outside of your girl
-Stop worrying so damn much
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
If you have to ask if something is "afc" then yes its afc.
If you don't get a job.. She WILL lose attraction. Unless she's an old cougar sugar mama looking for young dyck.
Either way.. It won't last unless your the man with a plan.
As George Thourghgood says "get a hair cut and get a REAL job.
Epi
Edit: kids WILL NOT make you closer. The only closer you will be getting will be closer to afc and her losing even more time/attraction for you. You have to have a good solid foundation before you bring kids into this world. Your "closer" will be all of 5 seconds as you blow your load.. After that you will be on the back burner and handing over your paycheck.
If you don't get a job.. She WILL lose attraction. Unless she's an old cougar sugar mama looking for young dyck.
Either way.. It won't last unless your the man with a plan.
As George Thourghgood says "get a hair cut and get a REAL job.
Epi
Edit: kids WILL NOT make you closer. The only closer you will be getting will be closer to afc and her losing even more time/attraction for you. You have to have a good solid foundation before you bring kids into this world. Your "closer" will be all of 5 seconds as you blow your load.. After that you will be on the back burner and handing over your paycheck.
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Sure......... We'll believe that!mikey2012 said:
#Nothingwasthesame after this day.
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