"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Is this AFC?

AverageFC

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So I'm happy with my life right now. Based on reading the Bible and this forums, I've improved my mental attitude, and while I thought I was walking properly beforehand, I realized I wasnt and corrected that immediately. Just about every area of my life (college, extracurricular, etc) is great.

Provided all this, is it still AFC to want a GF/relationship?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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diablo

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Why would it be? It's human nature to want something desirable - the only way it could turn into something considered "AFC" is by certain actions you take in the belief that it will result in said "gf/relationship".
 

AverageFC

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Well if wanting a relationship meant producing some sort of negative energy, I didnt want to reflect that in my life.
 

Kaine

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You're feeling is natural. It's human nature to desire companionship

A problem only occurs when this desire cause's an imbalance in your life. Just don't make it a primary focal point.

If you put too much focus on it, you will likely to act needy and desperate. Self sabotage at it's very best.

Keep learning but don't fret it.

Kaine
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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thefonz

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godam i am so hot.....just needed to get that off my chest
 

Lifeforce

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Focus more on what you want and less about what it DJ/AFC.
 
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