Lordeterra
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Every time I’ve been lovey dovey I’ve seen it go side ways. What do you guys think
"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"
The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.
Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.
Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.
Is this a trick?
- Thread starter Lordeterra
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Focal core
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Nahh its nothing,, women just like you to override her idea sometime, she's telling you to take control and thrust her brains out.
Whenever women want an "emotionally available" guy, they are really saying they want a guy they can control and manipulate. For that to happen, a guy has to be emotionally available.
BackInTheGame78
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The key is to give them it in small doses and then fvck them so good they can't stop thinking about you.
That will make them obsessed with you.
That will make them obsessed with you.
Barrister
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A C&F response I think would have worked much better here. You have shown a very limited excerpt of your conversation but it looks like you are well on your way to her pinning you down with this. I suppose whether that is a good or bad thing may depend on what you want out of it as well as how long you've been with her. If you've been seeing her for a week vs. a year may make a difference as to whether you should be showing emotion in another words.
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manfrombelow
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That's typical Anti-Slut Defense when a girl is trying to let you know that she doesn't want to meet you just for sex. IMO, don't give a damn about what she says, just keep fvcking her instead.
Lordeterra
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Since last October