Lordeterra
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Every time I’ve been lovey dovey I’ve seen it go side ways. What do you guys think
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Is this a trick?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Focal core
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Nahh its nothing,, women just like you to override her idea sometime, she's telling you to take control and thrust her brains out.
Whenever women want an "emotionally available" guy, they are really saying they want a guy they can control and manipulate. For that to happen, a guy has to be emotionally available.
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The key is to give them it in small doses and then fvck them so good they can't stop thinking about you.
That will make them obsessed with you.
That will make them obsessed with you.
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A C&F response I think would have worked much better here. You have shown a very limited excerpt of your conversation but it looks like you are well on your way to her pinning you down with this. I suppose whether that is a good or bad thing may depend on what you want out of it as well as how long you've been with her. If you've been seeing her for a week vs. a year may make a difference as to whether you should be showing emotion in another words.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
manfrombelow
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That's typical Anti-Slut Defense when a girl is trying to let you know that she doesn't want to meet you just for sex. IMO, don't give a damn about what she says, just keep fvcking her instead.
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Since last October