"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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is this a sign of a std?

itishe

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i was with a girl the other night, from the sounds of it shes been around a bit. She made a joke about getting something from her so i stopped and asked her if she was clean. She said yeah and was joking because she has this chronic bladder pain and has been seeing doctors for it.

She said shes going to an urologist soon to get it checked out. Regardless i wore a condom and did not give her oral sex.

She didnt have warts or anything but it worries me as she was in pain this morning in her abdominal region and pain after we had sex.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Julius_Seizeher

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Doesn't sound like an std.

If it's related to her lady business at all, it might be endometriosis (sp?) or one of the other afflictions of the greater reproductive system.
 

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The fact that she's joking about having an STD sounds fishy to me...
 

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Never, had a woman "joke" about a STD. They catch em a lot easier than we do and they despise us for it. Just don't see her again.

I've had one joke about her puffy pvssy from an allergic reaction to the condom She was using. She reminded me of our first time last night. I weened her off those condoms. Problem solved. Her doctor couldn't even figure it out. Kept giving her this high-$$ ointment to spread over it.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Falcon25

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She has a bladder infection. Which sometimes occurs from penis going from anus to vagina without cleaning. In other words, the man who previously rented her body, went from ass to puss without washing or changing condom. Hope that helps.
 
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