"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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is this a sign of a std?

itishe

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i was with a girl the other night, from the sounds of it shes been around a bit. She made a joke about getting something from her so i stopped and asked her if she was clean. She said yeah and was joking because she has this chronic bladder pain and has been seeing doctors for it.

She said shes going to an urologist soon to get it checked out. Regardless i wore a condom and did not give her oral sex.

She didnt have warts or anything but it worries me as she was in pain this morning in her abdominal region and pain after we had sex.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Julius_Seizeher

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Doesn't sound like an std.

If it's related to her lady business at all, it might be endometriosis (sp?) or one of the other afflictions of the greater reproductive system.
 

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The fact that she's joking about having an STD sounds fishy to me...
 

Poonani Maker

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Never, had a woman "joke" about a STD. They catch em a lot easier than we do and they despise us for it. Just don't see her again.

I've had one joke about her puffy pvssy from an allergic reaction to the condom She was using. She reminded me of our first time last night. I weened her off those condoms. Problem solved. Her doctor couldn't even figure it out. Kept giving her this high-$$ ointment to spread over it.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Falcon25

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She has a bladder infection. Which sometimes occurs from penis going from anus to vagina without cleaning. In other words, the man who previously rented her body, went from ass to puss without washing or changing condom. Hope that helps.
 
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