marmel75
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Thats your opinion. I'm not into fat chicks at all but some people are.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Is this a good way to get my gf to lose weight?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Skyline
Master Don Juan
Thick and fat are two completely different things. Thank feminism for merging the two.
I think asking her if she wants to tag along is cool. That way it comes off like your just seeing if she wants join you, with no ulterior motive. You're delivery must be innocent, and harmless
If you say anything that implies you think she NEEDS to lose weight, or you want her to, it will blow up in your face. Women can't handle that
If you say anything that implies you think she NEEDS to lose weight, or you want her to, it will blow up in your face. Women can't handle that
dustmuffin
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Been in a LTR with a fatty for a while. She cooks and cleans for me. Buys me gifts and pays her share for trips and what not. Has never denied me sex. When she is on the rag I c um in her a SS or a bj. Have really good kinky sex. She earns 6 figures and owns her home. I think these attributes cancel out her need to drop some weight. Although she is actively trying. She came up the idea herself.
EyeBRollin
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You chose the wrong girl bud. Accept her how she is and pray she doesn’t get too much fatter (she will). If you want a fit girl, you have to meet a fit girl. They don’t change.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
MatureDJ
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You are sleepwalking into a marriage with a cow - and one with small udders at that. I guarantee that her shape will continue to circulize as she ages.