"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Is this a fair example of decent C+F online?

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I tried this an hour ago with some cute chick I saw in an AOL chatroom as just an experiment with C+F. How do you think an attempt of a similar style of C+F translate in a real, in-person sarge?

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me [6:01 PM]: hi

her [6:01 PM]: hi

me [6:01 PM]: what's up

her [6:02 PM]: bored.u?

me [6:02 PM]: same

me [6:02 PM]: age?

her [6:02 PM]: 23.u?

me [6:02 PM]: 27

me [6:02 PM]: nat?

her [6:03 PM]: cuban.italian.u?

me [6:03 PM]: nice mix

her [6:03 PM]: thanx

me [6:03 PM]: i meant me, not you

me [6:03 PM]: j/k

her [6:03 PM]: hahah

me [6:03 PM]: brazilian here

her [6:03 PM]: pic?

me [6:04 PM]: sure, thanks...send me some

her [6:04 PM]: profile

me [6:04 PM]: i saw

her [6:05 PM]: lol

me [6:05 PM]: ur cute enough to make me let you buy me a drink sometime

her [6:05 PM]: lmao

her [6:05 PM]: oh.yea.who.said.i.would.buy.u.a.drink

me [6:06 PM]: i just did...look above

her [6:06 PM]: its.the.other/way.around

her[6:06 PM]: lol

me [6:06 PM]: hmm...ur right....u might as well buy yourself a keyboard
first....your space bar is f'ed up

me [6:06 PM]: THEN you can buy me a drink

her[6:07 PM]: lmoa

her[6:07 PM]: too.funny
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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timorozco

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nice. definitely could work in person, duno about the whole keyboard part...
 
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very good indeed.

however stay away from chatrooms, because the way to meet girls online is through actual websites

chatrooms are so so 20th century
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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chance- said:
don't knock the online dating.

who knocked it?

chatrooms were good 10 years ago when real sites didn't exist.

Now we have myspace for all online hookups.......just don't do random chatrooms
 

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myspace is full of bimbo blondes who think they're entering a modelling competition with all their pictures up. chatrooms still work... you get pictures from there too if you ask :]
 
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chance- said:
myspace is full of bimbo blondes who think they're entering a modelling competition with all their pictures up.

very ignorant thing to say. You're too immature to have any sort of dicussion with
 
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