"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Is this a fair example of decent C+F online?

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I tried this an hour ago with some cute chick I saw in an AOL chatroom as just an experiment with C+F. How do you think an attempt of a similar style of C+F translate in a real, in-person sarge?

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me [6:01 PM]: hi

her [6:01 PM]: hi

me [6:01 PM]: what's up

her [6:02 PM]: bored.u?

me [6:02 PM]: same

me [6:02 PM]: age?

her [6:02 PM]: 23.u?

me [6:02 PM]: 27

me [6:02 PM]: nat?

her [6:03 PM]: cuban.italian.u?

me [6:03 PM]: nice mix

her [6:03 PM]: thanx

me [6:03 PM]: i meant me, not you

me [6:03 PM]: j/k

her [6:03 PM]: hahah

me [6:03 PM]: brazilian here

her [6:03 PM]: pic?

me [6:04 PM]: sure, thanks...send me some

her [6:04 PM]: profile

me [6:04 PM]: i saw

her [6:05 PM]: lol

me [6:05 PM]: ur cute enough to make me let you buy me a drink sometime

her [6:05 PM]: lmao

her [6:05 PM]: oh.yea.who.said.i.would.buy.u.a.drink

me [6:06 PM]: i just did...look above

her [6:06 PM]: its.the.other/way.around

her[6:06 PM]: lol

me [6:06 PM]: hmm...ur right....u might as well buy yourself a keyboard
first....your space bar is f'ed up

me [6:06 PM]: THEN you can buy me a drink

her[6:07 PM]: lmoa

her[6:07 PM]: too.funny
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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nice. definitely could work in person, duno about the whole keyboard part...
 
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very good indeed.

however stay away from chatrooms, because the way to meet girls online is through actual websites

chatrooms are so so 20th century
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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chance- said:
don't knock the online dating.

who knocked it?

chatrooms were good 10 years ago when real sites didn't exist.

Now we have myspace for all online hookups.......just don't do random chatrooms
 

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myspace is full of bimbo blondes who think they're entering a modelling competition with all their pictures up. chatrooms still work... you get pictures from there too if you ask :]
 
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chance- said:
myspace is full of bimbo blondes who think they're entering a modelling competition with all their pictures up.

very ignorant thing to say. You're too immature to have any sort of dicussion with
 
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