"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Is this a fair example of decent C+F online?

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I tried this an hour ago with some cute chick I saw in an AOL chatroom as just an experiment with C+F. How do you think an attempt of a similar style of C+F translate in a real, in-person sarge?

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me [6:01 PM]: hi

her [6:01 PM]: hi

me [6:01 PM]: what's up

her [6:02 PM]: bored.u?

me [6:02 PM]: same

me [6:02 PM]: age?

her [6:02 PM]: 23.u?

me [6:02 PM]: 27

me [6:02 PM]: nat?

her [6:03 PM]: cuban.italian.u?

me [6:03 PM]: nice mix

her [6:03 PM]: thanx

me [6:03 PM]: i meant me, not you

me [6:03 PM]: j/k

her [6:03 PM]: hahah

me [6:03 PM]: brazilian here

her [6:03 PM]: pic?

me [6:04 PM]: sure, thanks...send me some

her [6:04 PM]: profile

me [6:04 PM]: i saw

her [6:05 PM]: lol

me [6:05 PM]: ur cute enough to make me let you buy me a drink sometime

her [6:05 PM]: lmao

her [6:05 PM]: oh.yea.who.said.i.would.buy.u.a.drink

me [6:06 PM]: i just did...look above

her [6:06 PM]: its.the.other/way.around

her[6:06 PM]: lol

me [6:06 PM]: hmm...ur right....u might as well buy yourself a keyboard
first....your space bar is f'ed up

me [6:06 PM]: THEN you can buy me a drink

her[6:07 PM]: lmoa

her[6:07 PM]: too.funny
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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nice. definitely could work in person, duno about the whole keyboard part...
 
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very good indeed.

however stay away from chatrooms, because the way to meet girls online is through actual websites

chatrooms are so so 20th century
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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chance- said:
don't knock the online dating.
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who knocked it?

chatrooms were good 10 years ago when real sites didn't exist.

Now we have myspace for all online hookups.......just don't do random chatrooms
 
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myspace is full of bimbo blondes who think they're entering a modelling competition with all their pictures up. chatrooms still work... you get pictures from there too if you ask :]
 
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chance- said:
myspace is full of bimbo blondes who think they're entering a modelling competition with all their pictures up.
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very ignorant thing to say. You're too immature to have any sort of dicussion with
 
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