"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Is this a fair example of decent C+F online?

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I tried this an hour ago with some cute chick I saw in an AOL chatroom as just an experiment with C+F. How do you think an attempt of a similar style of C+F translate in a real, in-person sarge?

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me [6:01 PM]: hi

her [6:01 PM]: hi

me [6:01 PM]: what's up

her [6:02 PM]: bored.u?

me [6:02 PM]: same

me [6:02 PM]: age?

her [6:02 PM]: 23.u?

me [6:02 PM]: 27

me [6:02 PM]: nat?

her [6:03 PM]: cuban.italian.u?

me [6:03 PM]: nice mix

her [6:03 PM]: thanx

me [6:03 PM]: i meant me, not you

me [6:03 PM]: j/k

her [6:03 PM]: hahah

me [6:03 PM]: brazilian here

her [6:03 PM]: pic?

me [6:04 PM]: sure, thanks...send me some

her [6:04 PM]: profile

me [6:04 PM]: i saw

her [6:05 PM]: lol

me [6:05 PM]: ur cute enough to make me let you buy me a drink sometime

her [6:05 PM]: lmao

her [6:05 PM]: oh.yea.who.said.i.would.buy.u.a.drink

me [6:06 PM]: i just did...look above

her [6:06 PM]: its.the.other/way.around

her[6:06 PM]: lol

me [6:06 PM]: hmm...ur right....u might as well buy yourself a keyboard
first....your space bar is f'ed up

me [6:06 PM]: THEN you can buy me a drink

her[6:07 PM]: lmoa

her[6:07 PM]: too.funny
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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nice. definitely could work in person, duno about the whole keyboard part...
 
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very good indeed.

however stay away from chatrooms, because the way to meet girls online is through actual websites

chatrooms are so so 20th century
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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chance- said:
don't knock the online dating.
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who knocked it?

chatrooms were good 10 years ago when real sites didn't exist.

Now we have myspace for all online hookups.......just don't do random chatrooms
 
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myspace is full of bimbo blondes who think they're entering a modelling competition with all their pictures up. chatrooms still work... you get pictures from there too if you ask :]
 
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chance- said:
myspace is full of bimbo blondes who think they're entering a modelling competition with all their pictures up.
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very ignorant thing to say. You're too immature to have any sort of dicussion with
 
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