"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
"is this a date?"
- Thread starter ilikebeef
- Start date
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
AlexTheGreat
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Me : "Stop asking so many questions ! just wait and see, I'm sure you won't be disappointedOriginally posted by ilikebeef
What's a good answer to this question?
Me: Hey, I'm going xxx saturday, wanna come?
Her: Is this a date?
Me: umm....let me ask sosuave, hang on a minute.
"LesaneCrooks
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possible responses:
"Do you want it to be?"
"If u wanna call it that"
"or just <insert activity>"
Mr. Debonaire
Master Don Juan
you: you wish!
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
I can imagine someone saying that...pepole are crazy.Originally posted by ilikebeef
Me: umm....let me ask sosuave, hang on a minute.
Brian20o2
Master Don Juan
i still grow tired of useless posts
simply put: follow ur instinct, dont expect too much
i hate sounding like this but please dont post usless stuff
at least skim the bible!