"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
"is this a date?"
- Thread starter ilikebeef
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
AlexTheGreat
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Me : "Stop asking so many questions ! just wait and see, I'm sure you won't be disappointedOriginally posted by ilikebeef
What's a good answer to this question?
Me: Hey, I'm going xxx saturday, wanna come?
Her: Is this a date?
Me: umm....let me ask sosuave, hang on a minute.
"LesaneCrooks
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possible responses:
"Do you want it to be?"
"If u wanna call it that"
"or just <insert activity>"
Mr. Debonaire
Master Don Juan
you: you wish!
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
I can imagine someone saying that...pepole are crazy.Originally posted by ilikebeef
Me: umm....let me ask sosuave, hang on a minute.
Brian20o2
Master Don Juan
i still grow tired of useless posts
simply put: follow ur instinct, dont expect too much
i hate sounding like this but please dont post usless stuff
at least skim the bible!