"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
"is this a date?"
- Thread starter ilikebeef
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
AlexTheGreat
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Me : "Stop asking so many questions ! just wait and see, I'm sure you won't be disappointedOriginally posted by ilikebeef
What's a good answer to this question?
Me: Hey, I'm going xxx saturday, wanna come?
Her: Is this a date?
Me: umm....let me ask sosuave, hang on a minute.
"LesaneCrooks
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possible responses:
"Do you want it to be?"
"If u wanna call it that"
"or just <insert activity>"
Mr. Debonaire
Master Don Juan
you: you wish!
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
I can imagine someone saying that...pepole are crazy.Originally posted by ilikebeef
Me: umm....let me ask sosuave, hang on a minute.
Brian20o2
Master Don Juan
i still grow tired of useless posts
simply put: follow ur instinct, dont expect too much
i hate sounding like this but please dont post usless stuff
at least skim the bible!