"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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"is this a date?"

ilikebeef

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What's a good answer to this question?

Me: Hey, I'm going xxx saturday, wanna come?

Her: Is this a date?

Me: umm....let me ask sosuave, hang on a minute. :D
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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AlexTheGreat

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Originally posted by ilikebeef
What's a good answer to this question?

Me: Hey, I'm going xxx saturday, wanna come?

Her: Is this a date?

Me: umm....let me ask sosuave, hang on a minute. :D
Me : "Stop asking so many questions ! just wait and see, I'm sure you won't be disappointed ;)"
 

LesaneCrooks

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just happened to me yesterday

possible responses:
"Do you want it to be?"
"If u wanna call it that"
"or just <insert activity>"
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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oakraiderz2

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Originally posted by ilikebeef
Me: umm....let me ask sosuave, hang on a minute. :D
I can imagine someone saying that...pepole are crazy.
 

Brian20o2

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as much as i am a noob
i still grow tired of useless posts
simply put: follow ur instinct, dont expect too much
i hate sounding like this but please dont post usless stuff
at least skim the bible!
 
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