"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
"is this a date?"
- Thread starter ilikebeef
- Start date
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
AlexTheGreat
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Me : "Stop asking so many questions ! just wait and see, I'm sure you won't be disappointedOriginally posted by ilikebeef
What's a good answer to this question?
Me: Hey, I'm going xxx saturday, wanna come?
Her: Is this a date?
Me: umm....let me ask sosuave, hang on a minute.
"LesaneCrooks
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possible responses:
"Do you want it to be?"
"If u wanna call it that"
"or just <insert activity>"
Mr. Debonaire
Master Don Juan
you: you wish!
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
I can imagine someone saying that...pepole are crazy.Originally posted by ilikebeef
Me: umm....let me ask sosuave, hang on a minute.
Brian20o2
Master Don Juan
i still grow tired of useless posts
simply put: follow ur instinct, dont expect too much
i hate sounding like this but please dont post usless stuff
at least skim the bible!