Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Is there such a thing as a condom for anal sex?

MatureDJ

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OK, here's what happened. I picked up a chick on a Russian dating website (a free website like BookOfMatches, except that the women are childless and attractive.) (I am in a former USSR republic.) Anyway, I take her back to my place, and I get her to perform fellatio, but she says only with a condom :(. I had bought a few packs earlier (always be prepared!), and when she started to suck, she said that the condom was for anal sex, and that evidently it had a strange taste. :confused:

BTW, I used it normally with her in vaginal sex. :up:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Mr.Positive

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MatureDJ said:
OK, here's what happened. I picked up a chick on a Russian dating website (a free website like BookOfMatches, except that the women are childless and attractive.) (I am in a former USSR republic.) Anyway, I take her back to my place, and I get her to perform fellatio, but she says only with a condom :(. I had bought a few packs earlier (always be prepared!), and when she started to suck, she said that the condom was for anal sex, and that evidently it had a strange taste. :confused:

BTW, I used it normally with her in vaginal sex. :up:

Could she have been hinting that she wanted anal sex? There must have been a language barrier issue.
 

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No, I think I understood her properly. If she had wanted anal sex, she would have lowered her pooper scooper on it, instead of spitting in my bathroom sink.
 

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Maybe she wanted you to buy a flavored one or something. I've never used a condom for oral before, so I can't help you, but latex on its own doesn't exactly smell or taste great. If this becomes a pattern in your area, invest in some flavored condoms to go with your regular ones.
 

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who the hell gets blow jobs with a condom on ?!?!?!!??????????????

btw this thread sux
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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