Is there any scenario where a girl could cheat on you and you'd say it wasn't her fault? Is there one where you'd say it's your fault she cheated?

[devilkingx2]

We're all aware of the old stereotype that when a woman cheats it's the man's fault for not being man enough for her and satisfying her needs or whatever, and we're all red pill enough to know that that's bullsh!t. Either because it's rarely the reason girls cheat (except in sh!tty marriages) and because that's not how you deal with relationship issues as a responsible adult in the first place.

But it always had me thinking, is there ever a scenario where cheating could be the fault of someone other than the cheater? And in that scenario, what would you do? What should you do?

the only scenario could come up with is:

You talk her into a terrible idea and it backfires, like you convince her to take a job as a masseuse or a stripper in a place you know to be dirty/seedy/shady and she ends up giving happy endings.

I saw a sitcom once where a fat guy convinces his sexy wife to pretend to be single and date a cop to lead him on so that the cop would drop the parking/speeding ticket he gave her since they didn't want to pay it. And my thought the whole time was "why would a fat UPS driver want his way out of his league wife to get 1 on 1 date time with a cop? How could that possibly go well?"

Disclaimer: this whole thing is a theoretical thought experiment, if you get cheated on call her a wh0re and dump her, DO NOT bother to evaluate fault

 

[marvinlfloresq]

Yes. If you withhold sex from her. Then, you cant get mad she gets it from another source, assuming shes your woman.

 

[devilkingx2]

Yes. If you withhold sex from her. Then, you cant get mad she gets it from another source, assuming shes your woman.

That's true lmao, would be hilarious to hear a story about a man withholding sex from a woman though

 

[zekko]

That's true lmao, would be hilarious to hear a story about a man withholding sex from a woman though

I know of several cases like this, where the wife wants it and the husband doesn't. Think Al Bundy.

I'd say unless you are cheating yourself, or if you are pimping her out, it's on her.

 

[MatureDJ]

Yes. If you withhold sex from her. Then, you cant get mad she gets it from another source, assuming shes your woman.

I was going to say NO, but this is a valid reason; I guess I had not considered it since it is so ridiculous for a heterosexual man to withhold sex - at least if it were not that his wife became a cow.

 

[zekko]

I was going to say NO, but this is a valid reason; I guess I had not considered it since it is so ridiculous for a heterosexual man to withhold sex - at least if it were not that his wife became a cow.

Again, think of Al Bundy. Many men tire of their wives sexually. What if the man becomes impotent? Does that give her carte blanche to then go bang whoever she wants?

 

[devilkingx2]

What if the man becomes impotent? Does that give her carte blanche to then go bang whoever she wants?

...yeah pretty much.

If my wife decided to go on some new medication that kills her sex drive i sure as **** wouldn't take a vow of celibacy that she decided for me.

 

[zekko]

If my wife decided to go on some new medication that kills her sex drive i sure as **** wouldn't take a vow of celibacy that she decided for me.

I'm admittedly old fashioned, but I'm not comfortable with cheating. If you have problems you can't work out, then I would say you should divorce. But that's also breaking your vows, so it's a lose-lose situation.

 

[Roober]

Only if she was raped or abused. Other than that, there is no reason to cheat. Anyone can end a relationship before they get intimate with another person. They are often just too much of a coward to do so...

 

[sazc]

Your stereotype is rubbish, are you educated beyond high school? Just curious.

 

[marvinlfloresq]

I was going to say NO, but this is a valid reason; I guess I had not considered it since it is so ridiculous for a heterosexual man to withhold sex - at least if it were not that his wife became a cow.

Lol. Well, some people on Prozac or meds cant have sex while on meds. If you watch A beautiful mind, with Russel Crowe they touch on this subject.

 

[marvinlfloresq]

That's true lmao, would be hilarious to hear a story about a man withholding sex from a woman though

Medication. Accident where you get your **** cut off, plenty of more...

 

[MatureDJ]

Again, think of Al Bundy. Many men tire of their wives sexually. What if the man becomes impotent? Does that give her carte blanche to then go bang whoever she wants?

I actually thought Peg was hot, in a MILFy sort of way.

 

[devilkingx2]

Your stereotype is rubbish, are you educated beyond high school? Just curious.

Who me?

 

[zekko]

I actually thought Peg was hot, in a MILFy sort of way.

Yeah, kind of. But you weren't married to her

 

[Fzatf]

If a partner withholds sex it's not easy to just end a marriage that may have kids. I can see cheating occurring before the nerve to end the relationship occurs.

 

[devilkingx2]

Women want it a bad, mate. Actually they often have insatiable drives that is hard to keep up with. Don't other female species just wear the man out and then eat him? That's what a good relationship feels like.

Can't relate ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ I wonder what that's like lol, sounds nice

 

[sosousage]

it is your fault for not cheating first

 

[zekko]

P0rn addicts will lose sexual interest, that's the typical situation where a woman could be justified to cheat.

So if a guy looks at a naked woman on the internet, his wife is justified in cheating?
No wonder the divorce rate is so high lol.

 

[zekko]

If it makes him uninterested in his wife sexually

Right, I got you. Some would argue, I suppose, that looking at another naked woman is a form of cheating. Not me, but some. Speaking as a male though, it's hard not to look.