RichardTheFrog
Banned
I talk to those girls online all the time. They're no different than the girls here. I generally dislike the personalities of Asian girls.
Who says I'm desperate for love? I don't even believe in love.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Is there any point to this?
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Who says I'm desperate for love? I don't even believe in love.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
damn 3,000 posts on forum about relationships and still paying for sex
RichardTheFrog
Banned
I had a girl flake on me from Tinder last week. She wasn't that hot so I didn't care.
RichardTheFrog
Banned
But I could do the work if necessary. It's about management at this point.
Even if she has her own money, she would probably prefer a guy who had lots of his own to someone that doesn't.
But anyway, when I go out, it's pretty obvious that it's my personality that's the problem. I'm slightly negative to say the least.
Are you collecting unemployment? How are you going out with women and you're unemployed? I suppose you have money saved
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
take women for a walk. they dont need to have a dinner. they need a funny date with emotions. it can be free
RedScorpion
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I'd take a moment to think about what makes another person interesting to you. What would make you go "Hey, that guy is pretty cool" or "Man, that girl has her life together".
For me, in a very boiled down sense, two things are good - some area of pursuit in an intellectual field, and some kind of physical sport or hobby. This is aside from how 'hot' or not you might find them.
Maybe someone having lots of money is interesting to you.
For me, in a very boiled down sense, two things are good - some area of pursuit in an intellectual field, and some kind of physical sport or hobby. This is aside from how 'hot' or not you might find them.
Maybe someone having lots of money is interesting to you.
Not really. As long as you are not poor, girls care about height, hair, and the man's age more than money.
Why not? You get ripped it helps with your mental and physical health. Not to mention the ladies love it.
djthiago1
Master Don Juan
Cheap dates, the zoo, parks, parties, free events in your town like a concert. Just pick up the newspaper everyweek and look for what's going on in town. I save money like you wouldn't know it haha
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Yes I’m going to take a woman up for a walk IN THE WINTER!
RichardTheFrog
Banned
I do this in the winter.
You're clearly not from America
You being delusional and hating women is a major issue.
The reason you’re having trouble is that you’ve accomplished nothing in life and think you’re such an accomplished guy. If you were a high status guy, you’d have access to a lot of women through friends, parties, etc. but you are a loner who posts on sosuave every day.
A guy who has status has a degree from Harvard, a six or seven figure job on Wall Street, a ton of friends, and a huge house. Or an NBA player who has 5 million followers on Twitter. You’re nothing remotely close to that. So do you have work to do? Yes, you do. Since you want to bang hot women so bad, stop lying to yourself that you’re a successful real estate investoR.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
We've all tried to tell him the same thing...over and over again. He just insults you in return, by bragging about the last hooker he bought, as if that is anything a man should boast about.
RichardTheFrog
Banned
Okay tell me your accomplishments.
RichardTheFrog
Banned
well he got jailed for 4 yrs and badmouthed on tv for trolling some girl
You’re right, I’ve never been in prison so I’m definitely inferior to you
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.