RichardTheFrog
Banned
I talk to those girls online all the time. They're no different than the girls here. I generally dislike the personalities of Asian girls.
Who says I'm desperate for love? I don't even believe in love.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Is there any point to this?
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Who says I'm desperate for love? I don't even believe in love.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
damn 3,000 posts on forum about relationships and still paying for sex
RichardTheFrog
Banned
I had a girl flake on me from Tinder last week. She wasn't that hot so I didn't care.
RichardTheFrog
Banned
But I could do the work if necessary. It's about management at this point.
Even if she has her own money, she would probably prefer a guy who had lots of his own to someone that doesn't.
But anyway, when I go out, it's pretty obvious that it's my personality that's the problem. I'm slightly negative to say the least.
Are you collecting unemployment? How are you going out with women and you're unemployed? I suppose you have money saved
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
take women for a walk. they dont need to have a dinner. they need a funny date with emotions. it can be free
RedScorpion
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I'd take a moment to think about what makes another person interesting to you. What would make you go "Hey, that guy is pretty cool" or "Man, that girl has her life together".
For me, in a very boiled down sense, two things are good - some area of pursuit in an intellectual field, and some kind of physical sport or hobby. This is aside from how 'hot' or not you might find them.
Maybe someone having lots of money is interesting to you.
For me, in a very boiled down sense, two things are good - some area of pursuit in an intellectual field, and some kind of physical sport or hobby. This is aside from how 'hot' or not you might find them.
Maybe someone having lots of money is interesting to you.
Not really. As long as you are not poor, girls care about height, hair, and the man's age more than money.
Why not? You get ripped it helps with your mental and physical health. Not to mention the ladies love it.
djthiago1
Master Don Juan
Cheap dates, the zoo, parks, parties, free events in your town like a concert. Just pick up the newspaper everyweek and look for what's going on in town. I save money like you wouldn't know it haha
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Yes I’m going to take a woman up for a walk IN THE WINTER!
RichardTheFrog
Banned
I do this in the winter.
You're clearly not from America
You being delusional and hating women is a major issue.
The reason you’re having trouble is that you’ve accomplished nothing in life and think you’re such an accomplished guy. If you were a high status guy, you’d have access to a lot of women through friends, parties, etc. but you are a loner who posts on sosuave every day.
A guy who has status has a degree from Harvard, a six or seven figure job on Wall Street, a ton of friends, and a huge house. Or an NBA player who has 5 million followers on Twitter. You’re nothing remotely close to that. So do you have work to do? Yes, you do. Since you want to bang hot women so bad, stop lying to yourself that you’re a successful real estate investoR.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
We've all tried to tell him the same thing...over and over again. He just insults you in return, by bragging about the last hooker he bought, as if that is anything a man should boast about.
RichardTheFrog
Banned
Okay tell me your accomplishments.
RichardTheFrog
Banned
well he got jailed for 4 yrs and badmouthed on tv for trolling some girl
You’re right, I’ve never been in prison so I’m definitely inferior to you
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.