"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Is there any point to this?

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@RichardTheFrog since you sound so desperate for love, we can tell from your 4000+ posts, have you considered maybe going to the Philippines, Kiev, Thailand or any country where women are dying to get married to anyone that would bring them to American?
I talk to those girls online all the time. They're no different than the girls here. I generally dislike the personalities of Asian girls.

Who says I'm desperate for love? I don't even believe in love.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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That's fine. But some women don't care if you have money either. ​



Then why are you so proud of making as much money with as little work as possible? You did say the following, after all:
But I could do the work if necessary. It's about management at this point.

Even if she has her own money, she would probably prefer a guy who had lots of his own to someone that doesn't.

But anyway, when I go out, it's pretty obvious that it's my personality that's the problem. I'm slightly negative to say the least.
 

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Money can't buy love. Women will marry you and screw the poolboy, and they shouldn't know how much you make neither, you'll become a magnet for mercenaries. I'm unemployed yet i'm doing fine with women.
Are you collecting unemployment? How are you going out with women and you're unemployed? I suppose you have money saved
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I'd take a moment to think about what makes another person interesting to you. What would make you go "Hey, that guy is pretty cool" or "Man, that girl has her life together".

For me, in a very boiled down sense, two things are good - some area of pursuit in an intellectual field, and some kind of physical sport or hobby. This is aside from how 'hot' or not you might find them.

Maybe someone having lots of money is interesting to you.
 

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I can honestly picture myself making $400,000+/year this year or next, and while not having to do any of the time consuming work.

Is that not impressive?
Not really. As long as you are not poor, girls care about height, hair, and the man's age more than money.

Please don't tell me that going to the gym will solve my problems.
Why not? You get ripped it helps with your mental and physical health. Not to mention the ladies love it.
 

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Are you collecting unemployment? How are you going out with women and you're unemployed? I suppose you have money saved
Cheap dates, the zoo, parks, parties, free events in your town like a concert. Just pick up the newspaper everyweek and look for what's going on in town. I save money like you wouldn't know it haha
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Not really. As long as you are not poor, girls care about height, hair, and the man's age more than money.



Why not? You get ripped it helps with your mental and physical health. Not to mention the ladies love it.
Wrong!!!

Girls care,about,a,rich guy.
 

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People overestimate the effectiveness of counselling. Just telling me "I have bigger issues" without being detailed isn't helpful.

I already do many other things and already have explored many other things. I'm never going to be content being celibate, but good thing I have the option of buying hookers.

What are my bigger issues as you see it?

All this house flipping stuff just started a few days ago realistically because I just found crews able and willing to handle the workload.
You being delusional and hating women is a major issue.

The reason you’re having trouble is that you’ve accomplished nothing in life and think you’re such an accomplished guy. If you were a high status guy, you’d have access to a lot of women through friends, parties, etc. but you are a loner who posts on sosuave every day.

A guy who has status has a degree from Harvard, a six or seven figure job on Wall Street, a ton of friends, and a huge house. Or an NBA player who has 5 million followers on Twitter. You’re nothing remotely close to that. So do you have work to do? Yes, you do. Since you want to bang hot women so bad, stop lying to yourself that you’re a successful real estate investoR.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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You being delusional and hating women is a major issue.

The reason you’re having trouble is that you’ve accomplished nothing in life and think you’re such an accomplished guy. If you were a high status guy, you’d have access to a lot of women through friends, parties, etc. but you are a loner who posts on sosuave every day.

A guy who has status has a degree from Harvard, a six or seven figure job on Wall Street, a ton of friends, and a huge house. Or an NBA player who has 5 million followers on Twitter. You’re nothing remotely close to that. So do you have work to do? Yes, you do. Since you want to bang hot women so bad, stop lying to yourself that you’re a successful real estate investoR.
I've accomplished and done a lot.

Tell me what you've accomplished.
 

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We've all tried to tell him the same thing...over and over again. He just insults you in return, by bragging about the last hooker he bought, as if that is anything a man should boast about.
well he got jailed for 4 yrs and badmouthed on tv for trolling some girl
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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