"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Is there a tigher first date then bowling?

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My bad.. Tighter.

I really can't think of one.

1. If a chick ain't down to bowl, she's not cool enough to kick it with.

2. You get to drink beer, which will loosen her and you up.

3. If you play good or sh1tty, there is always something to talk about. how good you are, how bad she is, ..the weird people in the lane next to you.. but you don't have to make long drawn out conversation cause when the conversation dies, just go throw another ball.

4. You have to walk by each other 40-50 times which is one of the easiest way to start to kino escalating with a touch to her leg arm, or whatever.

5. It's cheap as fvck and it is fun too so you don't have to worry about overdoing the first date.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I like bowling for the first date and a walk + dinner for the second.
 
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Don't mean to jack your topic, but have a question regarding bowling. Was going to ask this chick out for a second date, and I was thinking about going bowling (1 or 2 games), then going for a walk around the mall. Good or bad idea? If bad, suggestions?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Where I'm from we have cosmic bowling which is all you can bowl for like 12 bucks a person including shoes for 2.5 hrs and they play music.. I normally do 3 games or so.
 
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Where I'm from we have cosmic bowling which is all you can bowl for like 12 bucks a person including shoes for 2.5 hrs and they play music.. I normally do 3 games or so.
 
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Bowling is a great date...

here is another.

The Zoo.

Sounds crazy... but I think it might have something to do with the good childhood memories most people associate with the zoo... but it amps a girls interest level WAY up.
 
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