"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Is there a tigher first date then bowling?

Weezy

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My bad.. Tighter.

I really can't think of one.

1. If a chick ain't down to bowl, she's not cool enough to kick it with.

2. You get to drink beer, which will loosen her and you up.

3. If you play good or sh1tty, there is always something to talk about. how good you are, how bad she is, ..the weird people in the lane next to you.. but you don't have to make long drawn out conversation cause when the conversation dies, just go throw another ball.

4. You have to walk by each other 40-50 times which is one of the easiest way to start to kino escalating with a touch to her leg arm, or whatever.

5. It's cheap as fvck and it is fun too so you don't have to worry about overdoing the first date.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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AlmostThere!

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I like bowling for the first date and a walk + dinner for the second.
 

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Don't mean to jack your topic, but have a question regarding bowling. Was going to ask this chick out for a second date, and I was thinking about going bowling (1 or 2 games), then going for a walk around the mall. Good or bad idea? If bad, suggestions?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Weezy

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Where I'm from we have cosmic bowling which is all you can bowl for like 12 bucks a person including shoes for 2.5 hrs and they play music.. I normally do 3 games or so.
 

Weezy

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Where I'm from we have cosmic bowling which is all you can bowl for like 12 bucks a person including shoes for 2.5 hrs and they play music.. I normally do 3 games or so.
 

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Bowling is a great date...

here is another.

The Zoo.

Sounds crazy... but I think it might have something to do with the good childhood memories most people associate with the zoo... but it amps a girls interest level WAY up.
 
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