Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Is there a tigher first date then bowling?

Weezy

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My bad.. Tighter.

I really can't think of one.

1. If a chick ain't down to bowl, she's not cool enough to kick it with.

2. You get to drink beer, which will loosen her and you up.

3. If you play good or sh1tty, there is always something to talk about. how good you are, how bad she is, ..the weird people in the lane next to you.. but you don't have to make long drawn out conversation cause when the conversation dies, just go throw another ball.

4. You have to walk by each other 40-50 times which is one of the easiest way to start to kino escalating with a touch to her leg arm, or whatever.

5. It's cheap as fvck and it is fun too so you don't have to worry about overdoing the first date.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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AlmostThere!

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I like bowling for the first date and a walk + dinner for the second.
 

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Don't mean to jack your topic, but have a question regarding bowling. Was going to ask this chick out for a second date, and I was thinking about going bowling (1 or 2 games), then going for a walk around the mall. Good or bad idea? If bad, suggestions?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Weezy

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Where I'm from we have cosmic bowling which is all you can bowl for like 12 bucks a person including shoes for 2.5 hrs and they play music.. I normally do 3 games or so.
 

Weezy

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Where I'm from we have cosmic bowling which is all you can bowl for like 12 bucks a person including shoes for 2.5 hrs and they play music.. I normally do 3 games or so.
 

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Bowling is a great date...

here is another.

The Zoo.

Sounds crazy... but I think it might have something to do with the good childhood memories most people associate with the zoo... but it amps a girls interest level WAY up.
 
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