"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Is there a tigher first date then bowling?

Weezy

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My bad.. Tighter.

I really can't think of one.

1. If a chick ain't down to bowl, she's not cool enough to kick it with.

2. You get to drink beer, which will loosen her and you up.

3. If you play good or sh1tty, there is always something to talk about. how good you are, how bad she is, ..the weird people in the lane next to you.. but you don't have to make long drawn out conversation cause when the conversation dies, just go throw another ball.

4. You have to walk by each other 40-50 times which is one of the easiest way to start to kino escalating with a touch to her leg arm, or whatever.

5. It's cheap as fvck and it is fun too so you don't have to worry about overdoing the first date.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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AlmostThere!

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I like bowling for the first date and a walk + dinner for the second.
 

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Don't mean to jack your topic, but have a question regarding bowling. Was going to ask this chick out for a second date, and I was thinking about going bowling (1 or 2 games), then going for a walk around the mall. Good or bad idea? If bad, suggestions?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Where I'm from we have cosmic bowling which is all you can bowl for like 12 bucks a person including shoes for 2.5 hrs and they play music.. I normally do 3 games or so.
 

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Where I'm from we have cosmic bowling which is all you can bowl for like 12 bucks a person including shoes for 2.5 hrs and they play music.. I normally do 3 games or so.
 

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Bowling is a great date...

here is another.

The Zoo.

Sounds crazy... but I think it might have something to do with the good childhood memories most people associate with the zoo... but it amps a girls interest level WAY up.
 
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