"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Is there a such thing as too much confidence?

cola

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Many people here have low confidence, me on the other hnd, struggle with too much.
Like I'm humble to a point and ill help people and all, but sometimes I feel like I'm better than others and I don't want to be like that.

Whats scary is I don't have much to base the confidence on.. I'm not rich, not in elite shape, 23 and basically still a freshmen in my on again off again college career..so what if I do achieve something big?
Will I become a *******?


I find chicks trying to do to me, what you do to chicks ..
Neg me, tell me im arrogant..

The only concern is will I become a bad person?
should I embrace it or fight it?
Is my gift in life uncanny confidence? Thoughts?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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muscleman

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No such thing as too much confidence, if it's ACTUALLY confidence and not just baseless arrogance. You can think you're the sh!t all day long, but if you don't have much going for you (or veritable display of potential), you'll only get so far.

If you're unattractive, out of shape, and still live with your mom at 30 working minimum wage ... good luck, regardless of how "awesome" you think you are.

And don't worry "achieving something big". It's not just going to drop in your lap, you're going to have to bust your ass for it.
 

pdx1138

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Around your age thats common.

When I was 18 I knew everything in the damn world.
 
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