"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Is there a such thing as too much confidence?

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Many people here have low confidence, me on the other hnd, struggle with too much.
Like I'm humble to a point and ill help people and all, but sometimes I feel like I'm better than others and I don't want to be like that.

Whats scary is I don't have much to base the confidence on.. I'm not rich, not in elite shape, 23 and basically still a freshmen in my on again off again college career..so what if I do achieve something big?
Will I become a *******?


I find chicks trying to do to me, what you do to chicks ..
Neg me, tell me im arrogant..

The only concern is will I become a bad person?
should I embrace it or fight it?
Is my gift in life uncanny confidence? Thoughts?
 

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No such thing as too much confidence, if it's ACTUALLY confidence and not just baseless arrogance. You can think you're the sh!t all day long, but if you don't have much going for you (or veritable display of potential), you'll only get so far.

If you're unattractive, out of shape, and still live with your mom at 30 working minimum wage ... good luck, regardless of how "awesome" you think you are.

And don't worry "achieving something big". It's not just going to drop in your lap, you're going to have to bust your ass for it.
 
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Around your age thats common.

When I was 18 I knew everything in the damn world.
 
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