"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Is there a such thing as too much confidence?

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cola

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Many people here have low confidence, me on the other hnd, struggle with too much.
Like I'm humble to a point and ill help people and all, but sometimes I feel like I'm better than others and I don't want to be like that.

Whats scary is I don't have much to base the confidence on.. I'm not rich, not in elite shape, 23 and basically still a freshmen in my on again off again college career..so what if I do achieve something big?
Will I become a *******?


I find chicks trying to do to me, what you do to chicks ..
Neg me, tell me im arrogant..

The only concern is will I become a bad person?
should I embrace it or fight it?
Is my gift in life uncanny confidence? Thoughts?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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No such thing as too much confidence, if it's ACTUALLY confidence and not just baseless arrogance. You can think you're the sh!t all day long, but if you don't have much going for you (or veritable display of potential), you'll only get so far.

If you're unattractive, out of shape, and still live with your mom at 30 working minimum wage ... good luck, regardless of how "awesome" you think you are.

And don't worry "achieving something big". It's not just going to drop in your lap, you're going to have to bust your ass for it.
 
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Around your age thats common.

When I was 18 I knew everything in the damn world.
 
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