Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Is the use of sperm donors yet another manifestation of hypergamy?

MatureDJ

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I was reading an article about the children of sperm donors

http://www.nytimes.com/2011/09/06/health/06donor.html?src=recg

and it occurred to me that, as a man who is not able to donate sperm due to being short :mad:, the use of sperm donors - especially by single women - is really a manifestation of hypergamy. It seems to me that when a woman gives up trying to find a suitable husband to get pregnant and just gets a sperm donor, she is basically saying, "I am looking for the highest level of DNA, and since I can't find it in a normal relationship, I will simply be in essence, a member of the harem of some attractive, intelligent, and yes, TALL :mad:, man by having his baby."

Of course, after such a chick gets herself knocked up, she will try to shame some beta provider to help raise the kid - the same beta whose DNA she had rejected in the past - and complain to internet forums about not being to find a good man. :rolleyes:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Scaramouche

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Dear MDJ,
This seems like "Brave New World" gone mad...perhaps another view from a deck chair on the Titanic?.....All said and done,Kramer looks a fine example of an Alpine Celt.
 

Burroughs

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samspade said:
. If the situation were reversed, men would be looking for the qualities they value as well - youth, looks, family history, etc..
In a sense there is an equivalent situation for men yet prostitution has not been legalized. Though womens fertility clinics are everywhere...seems a bit inconsistent...

Why are women allowed to get what they MOST want in a safe, orderly fashion (should they chose) while men are denied that?

:yes:
 

Stagger Lee

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Wasn't there an Office episode like this where after Jan broke up with Michael she got inseminated at a sperm donor clinic. Hypergamy or better genes to a woman means tall, good looking, inordinately outgoing and confident and rich. Character and intelligence are not valued in a man.
 
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