"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Is the use of sperm donors yet another manifestation of hypergamy?

MatureDJ

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I was reading an article about the children of sperm donors

http://www.nytimes.com/2011/09/06/health/06donor.html?src=recg

and it occurred to me that, as a man who is not able to donate sperm due to being short :mad:, the use of sperm donors - especially by single women - is really a manifestation of hypergamy. It seems to me that when a woman gives up trying to find a suitable husband to get pregnant and just gets a sperm donor, she is basically saying, "I am looking for the highest level of DNA, and since I can't find it in a normal relationship, I will simply be in essence, a member of the harem of some attractive, intelligent, and yes, TALL :mad:, man by having his baby."

Of course, after such a chick gets herself knocked up, she will try to shame some beta provider to help raise the kid - the same beta whose DNA she had rejected in the past - and complain to internet forums about not being to find a good man. :rolleyes:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Scaramouche

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Dear MDJ,
This seems like "Brave New World" gone mad...perhaps another view from a deck chair on the Titanic?.....All said and done,Kramer looks a fine example of an Alpine Celt.
 

Burroughs

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samspade said:
. If the situation were reversed, men would be looking for the qualities they value as well - youth, looks, family history, etc..
In a sense there is an equivalent situation for men yet prostitution has not been legalized. Though womens fertility clinics are everywhere...seems a bit inconsistent...

Why are women allowed to get what they MOST want in a safe, orderly fashion (should they chose) while men are denied that?

:yes:
 

Stagger Lee

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Wasn't there an Office episode like this where after Jan broke up with Michael she got inseminated at a sperm donor clinic. Hypergamy or better genes to a woman means tall, good looking, inordinately outgoing and confident and rich. Character and intelligence are not valued in a man.
 
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