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Is the use of sperm donors yet another manifestation of hypergamy?

MatureDJ

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I was reading an article about the children of sperm donors

http://www.nytimes.com/2011/09/06/health/06donor.html?src=recg

and it occurred to me that, as a man who is not able to donate sperm due to being short :mad:, the use of sperm donors - especially by single women - is really a manifestation of hypergamy. It seems to me that when a woman gives up trying to find a suitable husband to get pregnant and just gets a sperm donor, she is basically saying, "I am looking for the highest level of DNA, and since I can't find it in a normal relationship, I will simply be in essence, a member of the harem of some attractive, intelligent, and yes, TALL :mad:, man by having his baby."

Of course, after such a chick gets herself knocked up, she will try to shame some beta provider to help raise the kid - the same beta whose DNA she had rejected in the past - and complain to internet forums about not being to find a good man. :rolleyes:
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Dear MDJ,
This seems like "Brave New World" gone mad...perhaps another view from a deck chair on the Titanic?.....All said and done,Kramer looks a fine example of an Alpine Celt.
 

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samspade said:
. If the situation were reversed, men would be looking for the qualities they value as well - youth, looks, family history, etc..
In a sense there is an equivalent situation for men yet prostitution has not been legalized. Though womens fertility clinics are everywhere...seems a bit inconsistent...

Why are women allowed to get what they MOST want in a safe, orderly fashion (should they chose) while men are denied that?

:yes:
 

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Wasn't there an Office episode like this where after Jan broke up with Michael she got inseminated at a sperm donor clinic. Hypergamy or better genes to a woman means tall, good looking, inordinately outgoing and confident and rich. Character and intelligence are not valued in a man.
 
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