"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Casanova was technically a confidence trickster/ scam artist.
Check his Wikipedia.
Sure he seduced their minds, of course..but not to benefit them. He used them to advance himself.
He was a user.

yes a seducer enjoys women and the game with women.
Like your friend they most are ‘ mischievous’ ..
but also could be considered also high social IQ Machiavellian types.

They love mind games. And the mind game of playing a woman really. Making a woman chase them and fall in love with them.
And playing games with/on everyone. I’ve noticed that in a lot of dudes I’ve met IRL.

I would say real seducers, the most successful ones are high in Dark Triad traits.

does all that mean they ‘love ‘ women?
no , not really. They love playing with power. Playing with people and winning /advancing their own interests is at the core of it.

Most of them are manipulators and users is the reality. My Brazilian friend was that. A renowned user.

so it’s not really about ‘loving women’ -moreso loving power.

And for a handsome man.. Women are easier targets than men to play the power game with.

my take on it.

This is why I do roll my eyes at some of the seduction tips out there. ( and in this forum)
As it’s a dirty and crafty business really.. real seduction.
Bro you seem cool i dont wanna make more enemies, rather friends but imo...

the ,ain point is...all this don juan stuff, the idea sleazy manipulators dishonest guys get the most sex it may have been true but that is only the in the marriage system which had its own dynamics and in those days most men and women didnt socialise freely, it was a tradifional cutlure and so it was mostly the liars cheaters and don juans who had the time and energy and ability to socialise and get women as for most 'normal' decent men and women it was frowned upon to be seen with different women being romantic etc most decent men in those days were honest men workers professsinals etc they didnt have time to socialise with different women..

So what im saying in todays world where it is open, like in animals, say chimps or whaetver, its not sleazy. short term, liars or manipulators will get the most, it is just the most competent men full stop but he can have many skills like what you have.

What im saying is that the women have this idea a man should be a nice guy maybe like what bexcellent is saying but then as i say these todays world chad from tinder is getting too much and there is all this bs so its true females are giving the most sex to hookups so im not sure how on-point beexcellent post is but i think the truth is the middle..

but i mentioned to you pimp game now there is room in the world for this...but it requires a higher skillset than don juan skillset..
a pimp aims to keep girls long term and in my vesion of pimp game obivously men would not be making their girls into hoes literally but you will get lots of benefits from keeping girls long term and ofcrouse you will not be monogomous

As soon as we remove the traditional sysyem, monogamy and all that you wil find its not don juan who gets laid the most its the Pimp, |Alpha Male etc he is like the most competent male, can talk, do math, organise, be calm, be tough bsaiclly someon is good overall like a ceo can do technical as well as emotional work
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Bro you seem cool i dont wanna make more enemies, rather friends but imo...

the ,ain point is...all this don juan stuff, the idea sleazy manipulators dishonest guys get the most sex it may have been true but that is only the in the marriage system which had its own dynamics and in those days most men and women didnt socialise freely, it was a tradifional cutlure and so it was mostly the liars cheaters and don juans who had the time and energy and ability to socialise and get women as for most 'normal' decent men and women it was frowned upon to be seen with different women being romantic etc most decent men in those days were honest men workers professsinals etc they didnt have time to socialise with different women..

So what im saying in todays world where it is open, like in animals, say chimps or whaetver, its not sleazy. short term, liars or manipulators will get the most, it is just the most competent men full stop but he can have many skills like what you have.

What im saying is that the women have this idea a man should be a nice guy maybe like what bexcellent is saying but then as i say these todays world chad from tinder is getting too much and there is all this bs so its true females are giving the most sex to hookups so im not sure how on-point beexcellent post is but i think the truth is the middle..

but i mentioned to you pimp game now there is room in the world for this...but it requires a higher skillset than don juan skillset..
a pimp aims to keep girls long term and in my vesion of pimp game obivously men would not be making their girls into hoes literally but you will get lots of benefits from keeping girls long term and ofcrouse you will not be monogomous

As soon as we remove the traditional sysyem, monogamy and all that you wil find its not don juan who gets laid the most its the Pimp, |Alpha Male etc he is like the most competent male, can talk, do math, organise, be calm, be tough bsaiclly someon is good overall like a ceo can do technical as well as emotional work
id like to see the video you posted previously. Can you pm it to me ..
 

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id like to see the video you posted previously. Can you pm it to me ..
nah it was bad quality, but i been meaning to respond to you, i got ideas and knowledge some may find it interesting, but its oriented around the social game pimp game your goal is to have multiple women long term you have to keep them coming back then you help them with life but you dont need to live exclusively with any 1 this can work today due to many many 30+ single women then this will be a good opportunity for the right type of guy
 

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have a quick look through this actually i found it quite entertaining its not real life consider it entertainment stylistic etc but th eidea is being a guy who can have multiple women and like a pimo you help them in all aspecs of life but they get theur value from jobs etc unkike hoeing they are normal ppl the book is good its quite funny but too long for this maybe just look through it its funny also

 

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nah it was bad quality, but i been meaning to respond to you, i got ideas and knowledge some may find it interesting, but its oriented around the social game pimp game your goal is to have multiple women long term you have to keep them coming back then you help them with life but you dont need to live exclusively with any 1 this can work today due to many many 30+ single women then this will be a good opportunity for the right type of guy
well I’d love to see it regardless of the quality.
I learn way more by video than reading.
Jus sayin … flick it on if you can :up:
I am of course v interested in all aspects of the Pimp Game.

I watched an Iceberg Slim doco a few times last year …a real life Pimp character. pretty good stuff

and cheers for the book link . Ive downloaded and will have a look over.

there was an interesting post on Reddit I saw last year .. some black guy who slept with 65 women in a year did an AMA post . Very interesting stuff.

he also had a ‘guide’ to his game for this.. but later deleted it as it got flamed so hard by the whiteknights ..

I must try track that guide down .
Ought to have some gold nuggets in it and be very useful for me.

he did 65 and most of them straight to his crib dates. A tall, ‘Tyrone’ type dude. He did a lot of comfort-game pre date he says.
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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