"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Is talking Femine?

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Is talking *Feminine*..?

I was just musing on this.
(Btw I’m at a bar atm and a bit pissed tbh.)

but I was wondering , is talking overrated ?

like conversational Game …
Chicks talk a lot man. They love to gasbag.
I reckon follow Greenes advice in the 48 Laws book.

and “always say less than is necessary”

(that’s a great book, his Art Of Seduction I do not rate)

Don’t say too much. Put ur energy down into your body , the loins . the lower energy and just use your eyes and alpha body language to sync up the “vibe” I reckon. They want a caveman. a masculine man .

Fvck this talking ****! Just caveman those hoes.

and it feeds into this below-
Let the b1tches fill in the blanks I say.

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I love Googles AI summary feature.
this is a great read and really useful ideas.
Women fvcking LOVE mystery man. Its a massive chunk of what women consider Game in a man.

Prompt - ‘why is mystery a key to seduction?’

Mystery is a key to seduction because it triggers the brain's natural desire to solve puzzles, create narratives, and seek rewards. When someone is an open book, the story is already over; when they are a mystery, the mind is forced to fill in the blanks.
Here is a breakdown of why mystery is such a powerful tool in attraction:

The Psychology of the Unseen
    • Dopamine production: The brain releases dopamine—the chemical of anticipation and pleasure—not when we get a reward, but when we are expecting one. Unpredictability supercharges this effect.
    • The Zeigarnik Effect: This psychological phenomenon states that people remember uncompleted or interrupted tasks better than completed ones. A mysterious person is an "unfinished story" that the other person's brain can't stop thinking about.
    • Fantasy projection: When you don't reveal everything about yourself, the other person will automatically fill in the gaps with their own idealized desires and fantasies.

⚡ The Mechanics of Attraction
    • Value perception: In human psychology, scarcity equals value. Someone who is instantly available and overshares can inadvertently signal low social demand. Retaining a bit of mystery signals high self-esteem and independence.
    • The thrill of the chase: Seduction is a game of tension and release. If there is no space between two people, there is no room for tension to build.
    • Deepening curiosity: True intimacy isn't built by dumping your life story on day one. It is built by revealing yourself like peeling layers of an onion, making each new discovery feel earned and special.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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These posts are running the gamut from the strange to now the absurd.

Don't post while drunk in the future.
After spending the last thread insulting, dismissing, and talking down to everyone who disagreed with him, and calling this forum a joke, he now comes back asking for everyone's input.

You really can't make this stuff up.
 

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Do you guys even get laid?
Honest question.
You lot seen like a bunch of made up cartoon characters and KJs.

like is anyone getting laid on the forum right now.

BPH seems to be the only guy getting any pvssy here.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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like is anyone getting laid on the forum right now
At this very moment, I'm personally being chased across state lines by The US Marshals Service, no thanks to the busybodies next door discovering all my prior lays buried beneath the basement of the house I'd been renting. Gonna miss that home

Snagging a fresh slice of cooter is, under these circumstances, task #3 on the list of priorities. Maker Of Life willing, the Ted Bundy energy I'm now exuding will come in handy, once the bulls are off my trail

Trust the rest of you all are having much less eventful day
 

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like is anyone getting laid on the forum right now.
One day yes, and the next one too for the past 5 years; With the same woman though. Some guys here prefer variety of women over quantity of sex, and that´s fine, to each their own. Im more of a Pleasure of Sex guy rather than a Thrill of the Hunt guy.

 
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