Is talking Femine?

[Cheeky_James]

Is talking *Feminine*..?

I was just musing on this.
(Btw I’m at a bar atm and a bit pissed tbh.)

but I was wondering , is talking overrated ?

like conversational Game …
Chicks talk a lot man. They love to gasbag.
I reckon follow Greenes advice in the 48 Laws book.

and “always say less than is necessary”

(that’s a great book, his Art Of Seduction I do not rate)

Don’t say too much. Put ur energy down into your body , the loins . the lower energy and just use your eyes and alpha body language to sync up the “vibe” I reckon. They want a caveman. a masculine man .

Fvck this talking ****! Just caveman those hoes.

and it feeds into this below-
Let the b1tches fill in the blanks I say.

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I love Googles AI summary feature.
this is a great read and really useful ideas.
Women fvcking LOVE mystery man. Its a massive chunk of what women consider Game in a man.

Prompt - ‘why is mystery a key to seduction?’

Mystery is a key to seduction because it triggers the brain's natural desire to solve puzzles, create narratives, and seek rewards. When someone is an open book, the story is already over; when they are a mystery, the mind is forced to fill in the blanks.
Here is a breakdown of why mystery is such a powerful tool in attraction:

The Psychology of the Unseen

• • Dopamine production: The brain releases dopamine—the chemical of anticipation and pleasure—not when we get a reward, but when we are expecting one. Unpredictability supercharges this effect.
  • The Zeigarnik Effect: This psychological phenomenon states that people remember uncompleted or interrupted tasks better than completed ones. A mysterious person is an "unfinished story" that the other person's brain can't stop thinking about.
  • Fantasy projection: When you don't reveal everything about yourself, the other person will automatically fill in the gaps with their own idealized desires and fantasies.

The Mechanics of Attraction

• • Value perception: In human psychology, scarcity equals value. Someone who is instantly available and overshares can inadvertently signal low social demand. Retaining a bit of mystery signals high self-esteem and independence.
  • The thrill of the chase: Seduction is a game of tension and release. If there is no space between two people, there is no room for tension to build.
  • Deepening curiosity: True intimacy isn't built by dumping your life story on day one. It is built by revealing yourself like peeling layers of an onion, making each new discovery feel earned and special.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

These posts are running the gamut from the strange to now the absurd.

Don't post while drunk in the future.

 

[Clockwerk50]

These posts are running the gamut from the strange to now the absurd.

Don't post while drunk in the future.

After spending the last thread insulting, dismissing, and talking down to everyone who disagreed with him, and calling this forum a joke, he now comes back asking for everyone's input.

You really can't make this stuff up.

 

[BaronOfHair]

@Cheeky_James Launching conversations which aim for depth and profoundness while liquored up is definitely overrated

 

[Cheeky_James]

Do you guys even get laid?
Honest question.
You lot seen like a bunch of made up cartoon characters and KJs.

like is anyone getting laid on the forum right now.

BPH seems to be the only guy getting any pvssy here.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

You lot seen like a bunch of made up cartoon characters

We are. I'm part of the Guardians of the Galaxy along with @BaronOfHair @Clockwerk50 @Doctor Europeo and @Gamisch

 

[BaronOfHair]

like is anyone getting laid on the forum right now

At this very moment, I'm personally being chased across state lines by The US Marshals Service, no thanks to the busybodies next door discovering all my prior lays buried beneath the basement of the house I'd been renting. Gonna miss that home

Snagging a fresh slice of cooter is, under these circumstances, task #3 on the list of priorities. Maker Of Life willing, the Ted Bundy energy I'm now exuding will come in handy, once the bulls are off my trail

Trust the rest of you all are having much less eventful day

 

[Doctor Europeo]

like is anyone getting laid on the forum right now.

One day yes, and the next one too for the past 5 years; With the same woman though. Some guys here prefer variety of women over quantity of sex, and that´s fine, to each their own. Im more of a Pleasure of Sex guy rather than a Thrill of the Hunt guy.

Thrill of the Hunt Men vs. Pleasure of Sex Men - Alpha Male 2.0

-By Caleb Jones This is such a big topic that it will likely be the first of several posts I make about this. This will clear up a lot of confusion you may have regarding conflicting advice in the seduction realm. Few men are aware that...

alphamale20.com

 

[Cheeky_James]

Ok well I’m talking about picking up women quickly for sex. That game.
So we’ve just been talking at cross purposes this whole time… all good.

 

[Cheeky_James]

We are. I'm part of the Guardians of the Galaxy along with @BaronOfHair @Clockwerk50 @Doctor Europeo and @Gamisch

certainly looks that way

 

[Serenity]

That's a very detail oriented focus. Yeah, women like to say a lot of words. I'm married to one and she very frequently says a lot of words even to explain something that could be summed up in a single sentence. They can say the same things a man says, they just use more words to do it most of the time. I think this comes out of women being generally more aware of how their message might be received and wanting to make sure it's received the way they intend it. They kinda worry about how they're perceived in general whereas we men kinda don't worry about that as much, expecting the receiver to just understand it.

So I guess it might be a bit feminine if you struggle to express basic things efficiently and worry a bit too much about being understood properly.

 

[BeExcellent]

Why do you care CJ? If all you want are ONS and STR situationships why worry about this at all?

 

[Cheeky_James]

Why do you care CJ? If all you want are ONS and STR situationships why worry about this at all?

because I want MORE of them…and with better quality ladies
And I am trying to crack ‘best practices’ to be as efficient as possible with my time and get the best results .

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

Ok well I’m talking about picking up women quickly for sex. That game.

Just out of curiosity, do you plan on doing this with minimum conversation? Without a lot of talking?

Contrary to most movie alpha-tropes, girls are attracted to guys who are expressive and articulate. BUT the things they reveal about their personalities and inner game through this articulate expressiveness is what makes or breaks any attraction.

I could see how one could talk a lot and reveal your non-attractive inner game/personality and then come to the conclusion that it was talking that caused the lack of attraction, and not the personality you revealed through the talking.

 

[BeExcellent]

because I want MORE of them…and with better quality ladies
And I am trying to crack ‘best practices’ to be as efficient as possible with my time and get the best results .

Right. In other words its all about you. Congratulations. Your vibe is that of a selfish prick. The more attractive a woman is the faster she will sniff out this vibe, which is utterly repulsive.

To be charming you need to really like and enjoy women, and you do not. You merely see women as a means to an end sexually. You seek to use women. And women feel that ugly creepiness in your vibe and if they are smart? They avoid you.

Ick.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Right. In other words its all about you. Congratulations. Your vibe is that of a selfish prick. The more attractive a woman is the faster she will sniff out this vibe, which is utterly repulsive.

To be charming you need to really like and enjoy women, and you do not. You merely see women as a means to an end sexually. You seek to use women. And women feel that ugly creepiness in your vibe and if they are smart? They avoid you.

Ick.

Now I see why OP doesn't think personality plays any role.

 

[Cheeky_James]

Right. In other words its all about you. Congratulations. Your vibe is that of a selfish prick. The more attractive a woman is the faster she will sniff out this vibe, which is utterly repulsive.

To be charming you need to really like and enjoy women, and you do not. You merely see women as a means to an end sexually. You seek to use women. And women feel that ugly creepiness in your vibe and if they are smart? They avoid you.

Ick.

you don’t know me BE don’t be so quick to judge.

and on the flip side of what you said - if a woman does just want sex also. Only sex and a sport fvck…that’s the way to be. The women will want a guy that doesn’t care much about them. Because he won’t get attached or needy after the sex.

So you’re wrong. Many a good looking selfish prick has gotten laid like a champion.

All players and Don Juan seducers are selfish pricks mate. Pretty much.
their ‘charm’ Is fake .
They don’t really ‘like and enjoy’ women - they love to manipulate and ‘win’ the battle of the mind game with women. And enjoy the spoils.

Casanova was a selfish prick! He was a confidence trickster. A con man.

LOL.

this forum is very confused about what it’s promoting imo. With all its ‘Master Don Juan’s ’ talking about lovey-dovey and relationships.
It’s a traditional dating , relationship and marriage forum afaics.

A dude can’t be a Don Juan if he “loves” every woman.

 

[BeExcellent]

you don’t know me BE don’t be so quick to judge.

and on the flip side of what you said - if a woman does just want sex also. Only sex and a sport fvck…that’s the way to be. The women will want a guy that doesn’t care much about them. Because he won’t get attached or needy after the sex.

So you’re wrong. Many a good looking selfish prick has gotten laid like a champion.

All players and Don Juan seducers are selfish pricks mate. Pretty much.
their ‘charm’ Is fake .
They don’t really ‘like and enjoy’ women - they love to manipulate and ‘win’ the battle of the mind game with women. And enjoy the spoils.

Casanova was a selfish prick! He was a confidence trickster. A con man.

LOL.

this forum is very confused about what it’s promoting imo. With all its ‘Master Don Juan’s ’ talking about lovey-dovey and relationships.
It’s a traditional dating , relationship and marriage forum afaics.

A dude can’t be a Don Juan if he “loves” every woman.

Not loves every woman.

Not at all.

But men who are successful seducers genuinely enjoy women. They enjoy the nonsense, the inane conversations, the figuring out of what makes her tick, that she wants to feel beautiful and desirable....because all seduction begins in the mind, and this involves investing the time and effort required to know her mind.

And sure, there are women who are simply looking for some D, that is true.

Cassanova was a master at seducing the mind of his targets. The best seducer I know (a good friend of mine) is over 70, is average in appearance, but is devilishly charming. He always seems like he just got away with something and has a masculine but mischievious energy. He is gifted at charming women. He thoroughly enjoys it. He LOVES women. And this energy flows out of him everywhere he goes.

 

[sevbucmash]

Lately, I've been driving a lot of chicks from clubs and restaurants, in company of girl friend. All have this one thing in common, gentlemen were left alone due to communication issues. Bad talkers.