Is something wrong?

[bambino]

Okay... Friday night I got to know this girl really well and found her interesting and we had good chemistry so since it was cold outside I kino'd and she instantly took it well and I kept her warm that night.

That night/next day/day after she talks to ME without me talking to HER first. So... I keep her interested and I C+F her which she enjoys. We've been good but I noticed today that she was "running" away... Or just leaving the area I am in.

Did I do something wrong? Or is it just coincidence that she had to leave INSTANTLY in a strange way more than once... Too much pressure?

It's been bugging me all day and I really need to get this off my chest. Thanks fellas.

 

[Docs]

How about the...don't worry about it, try again another day line??

 

[Carlos Xuma]

How about the...don't worry about it, try again another day line??

How about we help him analyze, so he can learn. You should know better doc.

Bambino, can you explain further what types of routines/c&f/method you used? We need detail to give you useful advice.

Take care,

Carlos Xuma

 

[bambino]

The c+f and "playful teasing" she took really WELL.

She happened to be a little ill with a cold or small cough and I was kidding with her by me avoiding her or covering my mouth+nose everytime I saw/heard her cough and I just hear her laugh and smile. She chases me around trying to get me sick and all that... Just playful. I thought it went well cuz when I put my arm around her waist she took it well and put her head on my while we were chillin with a couple buddies at a kickback.

Then later that night... we chill and hangout.. I take all the attention away from her and come back after a while without asking I put my hands around her hip/waist area and since there was no negative feedback I wrap my hands around her from the hip area. :cheer:

Okay for her running away.. I sadly initiated the hello and hug then she screams to her friend and runs towards her to their class/locker.. So... She's gotta just be a tease right?

I think I shouldn't have said anything to her.. I'm going to pull away right now.. I think I've been giving her too much attention.. Yeah?

 

[Elky]

Yeah she's teasing you. And if you're gonna pull away, dont stray too far

 

[bambino]

I'm really not familiar with the pulling tactic.. Like whats a good way to do it cuz I happen to see her everyday cuz my friends are friends with her friends... So ya...

 

[Carlos Xuma]

You initially attracted her, the mistake a lot of new guys make is that they stay in "attraction" mode, and the girl gets bored. After you've attracted her, you need to build some rapport/comfort with her.

 

[GaryUranga]

something else, you initiated the hello small things like that arent helpful, try to be less available

 

[bambino]

You initially attracted her, the mistake a lot of new guys make is that they stay in "attraction" mode, and the girl gets bored. After you've attracted her, you need to build some rapport/comfort with her.

do you have any examples of rapport/comfort?

yeah, i know i made a mistake by saying hello first... bah...