"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Okay... Friday night I got to know this girl really well and found her interesting and we had good chemistry so since it was cold outside I kino'd and she instantly took it well and I kept her warm that night.

That night/next day/day after she talks to ME without me talking to HER first. So... I keep her interested and I C+F her which she enjoys. We've been good but I noticed today that she was "running" away... Or just leaving the area I am in.

Did I do something wrong? Or is it just coincidence that she had to leave INSTANTLY in a strange way more than once... Too much pressure?

It's been bugging me all day and I really need to get this off my chest. Thanks fellas.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Docs said:
How about the...don't worry about it, try again another day line??
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How about we help him analyze, so he can learn. You should know better doc.:down:

Bambino, can you explain further what types of routines/c&f/method you used? We need detail to give you useful advice.

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The c+f and "playful teasing" she took really WELL.

She happened to be a little ill with a cold or small cough and I was kidding with her by me avoiding her or covering my mouth+nose everytime I saw/heard her cough and I just hear her laugh and smile. She chases me around trying to get me sick and all that... Just playful. I thought it went well cuz when I put my arm around her waist she took it well and put her head on my while we were chillin with a couple buddies at a kickback.

Then later that night... we chill and hangout.. I take all the attention away from her and come back after a while without asking I put my hands around her hip/waist area and since there was no negative feedback I wrap my hands around her from the hip area. :cheer:

Okay for her running away.. I sadly initiated the hello and hug then she screams to her friend and runs towards her to their class/locker.. So... She's gotta just be a tease right?

I think I shouldn't have said anything to her.. I'm going to pull away right now.. I think I've been giving her too much attention.. Yeah?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I'm really not familiar with the pulling tactic.. Like whats a good way to do it cuz I happen to see her everyday cuz my friends are friends with her friends... So ya...
 
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You initially attracted her, the mistake a lot of new guys make is that they stay in "attraction" mode, and the girl gets bored. After you've attracted her, you need to build some rapport/comfort with her.
 
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Carlos Xuma said:
You initially attracted her, the mistake a lot of new guys make is that they stay in "attraction" mode, and the girl gets bored. After you've attracted her, you need to build some rapport/comfort with her.
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do you have any examples of rapport/comfort?

yeah, i know i made a mistake by saying hello first... bah...
 
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