"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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is showing her your workplace a good idea ?

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It is obviously not a good idea for 1-3 dates. But I think it might not be a bad idea for 4th or etc. So on weekends our office is almost empty. I have full access there anytime. I once suggested a girl to show her my workplace. She liked the idea. I mean we can order a pizza , drinks. Watch a movie at the meeting room, etc. In case if someone comes in I can tell that we were discussing some new product etc. Consider the fact that she won't come to my apartment. Maybe later but not now. So it is one of a few places I can get private with her.
So is it a good idea or it will kill the mystery about you (me) ?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Masculinity

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It is obviously not a good idea for 1-3 dates. But I think it might not be a bad idea for 4th or etc. So on weekends our office is almost empty. I have full access there anytime. I once suggested a girl to show her my workplace. She liked the idea. I mean we can order a pizza , drinks. Watch a movie at the meeting room, etc. In case if someone comes in I can tell that we were discussing some new product etc. Consider the fact that she won't come to my apartment. Maybe later but not now. So it is one of a few places I can get private with her.
So is it a good idea or it will kill the mystery about you (me) ?
I'd keep my personal life separate from my professional life unless you guys have lived together for some time or she is your wife. B!tches be crazy.
 

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It is obviously not a good idea for 1-3 dates. But I think it might not be a bad idea for 4th or etc. So on weekends our office is almost empty. I have full access there anytime. I once suggested a girl to show her my workplace. She liked the idea. I mean we can order a pizza , drinks. Watch a movie at the meeting room, etc. In case if someone comes in I can tell that we were discussing some new product etc. Consider the fact that she won't come to my apartment. Maybe later but not now. So it is one of a few places I can get private with her.
So is it a good idea or it will kill the mystery about you (me) ?
To be honest it doesn't sound like the most exciting date. I think there comes a time when a woman may ask to see the place you work just out of interest. But I would wait for her to ask.
Also, if you split up with her and she can't get over it, you run the risk of her turning up at work and embarrassing you.
 

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You must not have enough experience with women to know how nutty or vindictive they can get ..

Example 1: Had a chick play on my phone for a week because I told her I wasnt interested anymore.

Example 2: Had a disagreement with a chick at her place. I said my piece calmly and left her there screaming at the top of her lungs.
She calls my job and tells them they should drug test me.


If you can avoid it, until she is your girlfriend don't even tell her your companies name..
Let alone sneak her in the building.
If I could afford it, id take every new plate to a hotel for at least the first couple months. They wouldn't even know where i live.

I'm even contemplating beginning to use a fake name..
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Thanks everyone for your answers. so the conclusion is that it is a Bad Idea )
 

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Sure, if you are within walking distance. You're probably better off showing a photo of your cubicle.
 

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No girls in the bat cave. Only on rare occasions.:D
 
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