"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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MrAddiction

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Guy you are waisting Time. Go for other girls.
This girl is not worth a ****.
Decide yourself how much you are willing to take just for another lay,
One thing is for sure, you can and should never ever turn this into a relationship. If she sleeps with you, she will cheat on her friend. You only want to fcuk her, you do not have to care.
But you want to turn it in to a relationship after fcuking her always remember:
ONCE a cheater ALWAYS a cheater!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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mrgoodstuff

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Have you even kissed her on the cheek yet? You are 100% in the friend zone. Have sex with her and then you be outside the friend zone.
Don't kiss her on the cheek. It's disrespectful to your manhood.
 

bigneil

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Don't kiss her on the cheek. It's disrespectful to your manhood.
Not when it's the first kiss. They often turn so that you "accidentally" hit their lips. You can walk over to 5 girls and kiss all their cheeks and it's smooth.
 

xstang77

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Next time she mentions her bf ask her what's your man got to do with me and send her a **** pic, she's low quality and deserves to get caught by her bf anyway by flirting with you.
 

JJMcLure

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Girls with unsatisfying relationships or abusive boyfriends like to have emotional tampons to satisfy the emotional needs and attention they don't get from the boyfriend. The boyfriend gets the physical side of the relationship and the emotional tampon gets used for the emotional support.

Girls feel an ego and status boost if they can keep guys ('orbiters') hooked like this without providing any physical relationship. The more of them and the more attractive they are the better.

You asked her out and got your answer - she is not interested. Move on.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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CMNILS87

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By trying to f*ck her.

First of all, you shouldn't even be analyzing and/or building relationships with women you're not f*cking unless those relationships are 100% on YOUR terms. Make a move or stop wasting your own time.

If you're not in the friendzone as you claim, PROVE IT. If you're afraid to stick your tongue down her throat right this minute, you're in the friendzone. Sh!t or get off the pot.
If you're not boinking her, you're her emotional tampon. She's complaining to you about the guy that's ****ing her. Guarantee she wouldn't complain to him, because he doesn't give a **** or would drop her anyways.
 
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