"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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MrAddiction

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Guy you are waisting Time. Go for other girls.
This girl is not worth a ****.
Decide yourself how much you are willing to take just for another lay,
One thing is for sure, you can and should never ever turn this into a relationship. If she sleeps with you, she will cheat on her friend. You only want to fcuk her, you do not have to care.
But you want to turn it in to a relationship after fcuking her always remember:
ONCE a cheater ALWAYS a cheater!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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mrgoodstuff

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Have you even kissed her on the cheek yet? You are 100% in the friend zone. Have sex with her and then you be outside the friend zone.
Don't kiss her on the cheek. It's disrespectful to your manhood.
 

bigneil

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Don't kiss her on the cheek. It's disrespectful to your manhood.
Not when it's the first kiss. They often turn so that you "accidentally" hit their lips. You can walk over to 5 girls and kiss all their cheeks and it's smooth.
 

xstang77

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Next time she mentions her bf ask her what's your man got to do with me and send her a **** pic, she's low quality and deserves to get caught by her bf anyway by flirting with you.
 

JJMcLure

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Girls with unsatisfying relationships or abusive boyfriends like to have emotional tampons to satisfy the emotional needs and attention they don't get from the boyfriend. The boyfriend gets the physical side of the relationship and the emotional tampon gets used for the emotional support.

Girls feel an ego and status boost if they can keep guys ('orbiters') hooked like this without providing any physical relationship. The more of them and the more attractive they are the better.

You asked her out and got your answer - she is not interested. Move on.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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CMNILS87

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By trying to f*ck her.

First of all, you shouldn't even be analyzing and/or building relationships with women you're not f*cking unless those relationships are 100% on YOUR terms. Make a move or stop wasting your own time.

If you're not in the friendzone as you claim, PROVE IT. If you're afraid to stick your tongue down her throat right this minute, you're in the friendzone. Sh!t or get off the pot.
If you're not boinking her, you're her emotional tampon. She's complaining to you about the guy that's ****ing her. Guarantee she wouldn't complain to him, because he doesn't give a **** or would drop her anyways.
 
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