"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Is she pissed about being DE-virginized?

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So long story short, I had banged and devirginzed a girl I'd been dating for a while.

She's been holding it off for a while, but I finally got in her.

Anyway, what differences can I expect now from her? She seemed a little different after having sex. She wasn't like really happy or anything, and I'm wondering what she feels not being a virgin anymore?

Any remarks from other fellow DJ's who have taken a girl's virginity before?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How old is she? How long have you been seeing eachother?

Some girls really value their virginity and drama ensues when anything disrupts that. Maybe she is regretting it or having second thoughts about whether or not she should have done it.
 
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Originally posted by WORKEROUTER
Anyway, what differences can I expect now from her? She seemed a little different after having sex. She wasn't like really happy or anything, and I'm wondering what she feels not being a virgin anymore?
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You can expect that she has no skills in the bedroom and is a pretty much useless sex toy. Like all young girls she's probably doesn't even know what's going on. Can you tell this girl to do anything and she'll do it? If so, I've been in your position and I can't stand those types of girls.
 
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Yeah, the first time having sex was her was a little sh*tty. First of all it took forever to get my d*ck inside her.


Once inside though, I propped her legs on my shoulders and went to town though.

She obviously isn't the greatest in bed, but she has a good body and is willing to bang. Plus, I don't mind helping her out.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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